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Problem #1 - My friend got mad at me because she was playing with my other friend, and I took him away to work on a drama play we were going to study. She didn't talk to me all day, and she moved me on her top 8 on Myspace. Why is she like that? She always gets mad for no reason. I try not to care,but I do. And when I tell her ' I am sorry' she treats me like crap.

Problem #2- Yesterday I ignored my friend because I felt as she ditched me for her 20 year old friends. I understand they're more popular and cooler than me. But did she ditch me or was I exxagerating?I feel like I should apologize, because she can hang out with whoever she wants,right? After all, I am a looser compared to them. How can I apologize?

Problem #3- My mom doesn't want friends over my house anymore. How can I tell them?Without being super rude?!!

Problem #4- I care too much about people. I feel as if they don't about me. How can I stop caring too much,without loosing friends?

Please help me. Thank u.

Answer 1

#1 Find a new friend
#2 Find a new friend
#3 Just tell the true, your mom doesn't like visitors
#4 Just keep caring, someday you'll find real friend who will care about you....

Answer 2

Answer 1) You shouldn't have to keep repeating "you're sorry". If your "friend" teats you like crap, she doesn't deserve you as a friend. Quit wasting your life with this girl and spend your time being yourself. You'll get new Friends cuz you're sweet :)
answer 2) Once you make a plan you stick with it. Your little 20 year old immature friend doesn't understand this concept, yet. Do not apologize ever for anything you feel you're not sorry for! Otherwise the you will allow the whole wide world to walk on you. Stay strong :)
Answer 4) How old are you? Is this your Moms house or yours? If it's your moms. take to your mom and ask if there's anything you could do or ask her if she'd like to talk. Maybe your mom is stressed about something to make her not want anyone over. Just talking about how we feel can help Then you can start having your friends over again :)
Answer 4) You need to do what's best for YOU. I can understand about the whole trying to make the world happy, but you need to take care of yourself first. You will always meet new people and the are going to love you for who you are. I hope these help
Nice job on asking 4 questions instead of only 1! Save points :) God Bless

Answer 3

#1. Talk to your friend and ask her why did she give you the silent treatment. If all doesn't go well, she is not your friend. Don't waste your time being friends with someone who treats you like crap.
#2. There's no need for you to apologize to your friend. You didn't do anything wrong. She is entitled to hang out with other people. You are not a loser at all. Hang out and continue to mingle with your other friends or find new friends and hang out with them.
#3. Tell your friends very nicely that you can't have friends in your house anymore because your mom said so. There's no need for you to explain yourself. If they don't understand, at least you know who your true friends are.
#4. In order for you to care about others, you have to care about yourself. You can still care for others, but don't put yourself out there too much because you don't want anyone to take advantage of you. Continue to be yourself and the more you get to know them, and the more they show you how much they care about YOU, you will care about them.
I hope my advice does help you. Best of wishes.

Answer 4

1: Sounds like she's jealous and likes the guy. Probably she feels like you're trying to steal her current guy intrest from her.

2: Don't apologize. you didn't do anything you said she ditched you? ask her why.

3: Simply just say my mom doesn't want anyone over anymore. there is no eloquent way to say it.

4: Everyone has their own way of caring about people. Some people might not show it till you're in a problem. there is a good chance they care al ot about you as well.