im 18 and my best friends is always asking me if i want to marry him
he says it joking but why does he ask me that??
2007-01-14 15:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have a bf
2007-01-14 15:54:39 · update #1
He definitely likes you! The fact that he keeps asking you, may mean that he is trying to show you that he likes you, but is too shy or scared to do it in any other way. He probably feels that you might start getting feelings for him! :-)
2007-01-16 22:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He says it joking? Come one, girl... you know better than that...
The boy likes you. Probably has for a long time. And you know it!Stop denying it! He might say he wants to marry you... but he doesn't really. What I can say he does want to do is be with you, and joking will be the best way to get something like that across if you guys are friends.
I had a best friend who told me once, "joking", if I wanted to make love on the couch. Just the fact that he said "make love" and not "have sex" made me realize later on that he wasn't really joking.
Think about it... and, I hope he's your type, because it sounds like a very sweet proposition... although a bit too stretched for your age.
2007-01-14 23:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by km_berrios 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he kind of thinks of you as a back-up or something. Does he say it like "someday if we're 40 and not marries" sorta thing? Or is he talking like now? Cuz if thats the case, the boy definitely has feelings for you.
2007-01-14 23:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Maggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he likes to be with you so much that he could spend his life with you, even if there was no phisycal attraction.
He may even like to be with you more than with his girlfriend.
I´m telling you this cause I have a similar feeling with my best friend. We spend such a great time together and share so many things that we could be married if it wasn´t for the sex. I don´t like him physically but I could live with him with out a problem.
2007-01-14 23:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by self destruct girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be that's his funny way to tells you he likes you, ask him straight up, if he's really your friend, he'll answer you in an honest way. Perhaps you most considerate your feelings for him, Do you think you like him enough to take this friendship to the next level? You should evaluate your feelings before to ask him and prevent the answers you may get from him.
2007-01-14 23:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, what are you waiting for. He is your best friend, so you like him, he is good. He is interested in ling term relationship with you. Don't be in confusion, you might get tension later. Next time, ask him to be clear. I am sure he is not joking, he is just cautious.
2007-01-14 23:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He secretly likes you and is joking to show his feelings in a way that if you do not reciprocate, he can easily back out without being hurt. It's a defense mechanism.
2007-01-14 23:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well forget the rest of those answes and listen up....he is an insecure little guy,he is afraid he is gonna loose you...which he should be cos you guys are still so young and lifes to long to be with only one person..common think about it....the same dude everyday..you will go mad...tell him to get a life or you will leave his sorry ***..and i am sure he will get the picture...although my question is you seem so mature compared to this insecure time bomb ready to go off,,,why bother yourself with that when you can have a stable guy who will appreciate you
2007-01-14 23:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by boyzindauk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably ask u that to joke around with u and if u say yes he will be mean about it or he is just jocking about it and just likes you.
2007-01-14 23:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll guys(me being one)! we through hints at girls and if i was him i think i would be throwning the hint of i like you alot and i would like to saty woth you for the rest of my life! or he could be just saying i like you but i want to know if you like me so much that you want to marry me! or he could be just playing!
ASk HIM!! KEEP BUGGING HIM AND HE WILL TELL YOU!
2007-01-14 23:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by spencer m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋