I lost a very dear friend on Monday, and it is just tearing me apart. My stomach is in knots and I can't stop crying. She was only 13 years old and she died because a stupid game called "the choking game." She had a whole life ahead of her and now she is gone and I don't know what to do. I want her back so bad. She was like a little sister to me and now I'll never see her smile or laugh at her silliness again. I know that it takes time to get over this, but I'm afraid if I let her go, I won't remember her at all. Please help me. Any suggestions you might have to make this easier for me, I would greatly appreciate. She was my little star and now a piece of my heart is gone with her.
2007-01-14 15:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just remember the joy she brought into her life and she will always be alive.
Perhaps to drive home the point to others, volunteer to tell the story of her demise to schools so that others will not follow in her tragic path
2007-01-14 15:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crying will never bring her back, but crying really does help the grieving process. I've lost a few friends as well, 4 to be exact. You will always remember and hurt, but it will get easier over time. Thats the power of healing.
It's tough to deal with. Maybe you can do something positive, spread the word about this deadly game, and how children are dying almost everyday because of it. A few months ago, I saw posters in the college about it, and information about a 14 year old guy who died because of it.
Get a bunch of your friends together and educate the younger children about the dangers.
It's okay to feel pain and hurt, you're grieving the loss of someone.
I hope all is well shortly, good luck.
-.-'
2007-01-14 15:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only healer I know for this. You will never forget her, but the pain will eventually ease. I lost two sisters three weeks apart, so, I can understand how you feel. Try not to dwell on her passing, read a book, say a little prayer, and remember the good times you had with her. Take care of yourself.
2007-01-14 15:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss and pain. She will always be with you in spirit. Keep her in your heart always. In time the pain will ease. Always remember her, the good times, things she liked and the special moments you two shared. Just close your eyes and listen, you can hear her laugh and see her smile. Pray to God to help you get through this. He is with you also. God bless you.
2007-01-14 16:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always be in your heart and your mind. She may even visit you in your dreams sometimes. Write down the things you loved about her. Put some photos in an album. You will never her let go. But these things will help you remember more poignantly, longer. My heart goes out to you.
2007-01-14 15:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never realy do..you must continue to live, BUT they are always with you in your heart and mind..time does ease the pain..just never completily
2007-01-14 15:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by mpefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never get over it--it just hurts less. just try to remember the fun you had w/ her when the hurt gets really bad, then soon every time you think of her you'll smile instead of cry.
2007-01-14 15:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by specialone18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always keep her in your heart
2007-01-14 15:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shahaunna G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋