If your spouse was in love with someone else would you let them go without a fight? What would you do?
2007-01-14 15:40:29 · 24 answers · asked by ShaSha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First I would talk to them and see if there was any way at all possible of making the marriage work... If not then yes i would let them go. If they are not please to dwell with you the Bible says it is ok to let them go.
2007-01-14 16:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, if got to that point - with out you even knowing that you were losing your spouse to some else. yes let your spouse go - is too late. next time pay more attention to your love one.
because the falling in love with some else did not happen over night.
chin
2007-01-14 23:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd let him go. I don't want anything to do with a man that doesn't want me as much as I want him. I have too much to offer a person without having it thrown back in my face in such a way. It would be obvious to me that the "right" one is still out there waiting to meet me.
2007-01-15 00:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say i would have to let them go, with no choice! Even if i loved him i couldn't stay with him knowing he didn't love me too and, knowing he loved another woman would be awful to live with that thought!! You'd be miserable no matter how much you love him!! Love is a two way street not one way ! Both have to love each other for it to work !
2007-01-15 00:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you love someone and marry them you want the best things for them. You want them to be happy. And you just have to come to terms that they can be happier with someone else.
2007-01-14 23:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-14 23:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it would be, I would have to let them go. It would hurt more to stay in a relationship where I wasn't being loved as much as I deserved. If you fight for their love, they will probably just end up resenting you for it (as horrible as that sounds). This has happened to me before.
2007-01-14 23:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Delvala 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you can make anyone fall in love with you. It's simple. People fall in love with people who NATURALLY gel with their core, and who earnestly want to know and support more about them. Plus the person must value themselves enough to love who they are. This person then becomes a valuable asset to their life for what they do to them, and from loving themselves, what they have to offer. But if you have to WORK to gel with your mate.
And this is really the recipe for life. Give fully to others, and love yourself and the role in life you've chosen.
2007-01-15 00:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by eleven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let them go. If it is true love, then I would have to let it be - as painful as it is. Part of loving someone is giving them their freedom when they need it.
2007-01-14 23:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would let him go if i truly loved him, if it means sacrifice and his happiness then i will set him free, i dont want to push myself into someone who does not want me anymore, i know its a martyr thing to do ,but if im no longer able to make him feel complete why hold on,i know its hard especially when you have kids, but staying would not even be worth it when he is no longer with me in thoughts. i will set him free without a fight.and live my life with pain but with the assurance that i did this also for me and for him, its not right to deprive someone you love the right to set him free....just so he knows he still has to pay child support for the kids.
2007-01-14 23:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋