your husband went out every night at the same time to the same store to glimpse the same girl? Hes never gone more than 10 minutes, but I know this is why. Since her appearence this has started. Its obvious, and insensitive cause I'm pregnant!
2007-01-14 15:36:53 · 25 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He suddenly wants a candy bar every night.
2007-01-14 15:46:11 · update #1
yes, he's wrong to do that. next time he needs a candy bar, make him get something that you pretend to need, too. Like Vagisil or some other feminine product. I guess you can't ask for tampons, since you're pregnant, but be creative.
2007-01-14 15:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by sheila b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW, I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. I don't know what to tell you. My husband has never done that before. Sounds as if so many me today do not have morals or respect for there wives. Very sad. Where have all the real men gone. I'm lucky my husband is saved I guess that is why he respects me so much. He has God in his life makes a big difference. My advice to you go with your husband to the store and let the woman behind the counter(in a polite way) your husband is married. Sounds as if your husband needs to take a second look at wedding vows.
2007-01-15 00:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there anything else that you are thinking is wrong in your relationship?? i'm not saying that something is but some men react this way for some reason when their wives are pregnant. i can understand why you're angry i sure as hell would be too! i don't think that he loves you any more or less than before. have you tried talking toh im about it? it might be a good place to start. communication is really important when you're in a relationship no matter what. so talk to him. see how he's feeling and if he has a reason for why he's doing this. make sure that's what he's doing too, though it does sound pretty obvious that you probably are right. while you're talking, make sure that you let him know how this is making you feel and anything else thats on your mind too. i hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-14 23:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband realize he's basically a stalker and that is illegal? I mean besides being an insensitive ***!!! If he keeps it up, take him for all he's worth and then tell the girl he's "glimpsing" that she may want to keep away from him, as he's a jerk - unless it's a two-sided glimpsing thing. If so, tell them both to kick rocks!
2007-01-14 23:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by JH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, I think its time to have a nice long talk with this husband of yours. Obviously he is being absolutely insensitive and completely going against your wishes as a married couple. Be serious and straight up with him. Let him know how upset his actions are making you. I cant understand why he would want to hurt you like this so tell him how your feeling.
2007-01-15 00:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is buy those candy bars and other things that he usually goes to the store for. When he says he needs to go to the store ask him what for. When he responds what he wants say oh I bought you one. He will not have to go to the store and gawk at another woman. That is very disrespectful and I do not blame you for being upset.
2007-01-15 00:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having cravings. I mean that literally. I have a friend that when she was pregnant her husband got all the cravings. Even some of the morning sickness. Ask him about it. Maybe he just gets that craving every night. How far along are you pregnant? Maybe you should just ask him and actually talk about it
2007-01-15 02:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by ashleyanderic_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His behavior is horribly insenstive and wrong. It's one thing to check out a pretty girl, but to keep returning?? Sit him down and have the talk with him....tell him you know why and how he's doing it. Tell him that it's also totally unacceptable behavior for a married man about to have a baby with his wife.
2007-01-14 23:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just buy him a case of candy bars and he will have no excuse to go out
2007-01-15 00:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by fredricklovesbasketball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to leave. he doesn't love you if he is doing this.
yeah men look at woman.. however this is unreal. he is stalking her and you are not doing anything about it.
if i was you. I would follow him to the store secretly and watch him to make sure that was what he was doing then i would tell the girl what he was doing. she would be freaked out but atleast she would know
2007-01-15 00:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Gina 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋