2007-01-14 15:26:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give her time, you dont want to rush her, ask her why she needs time and ask her what does she mean by this, you need to know if time means breaking up or time means she is going through some things that are going to take her to be alone to sort out.
2007-01-14 15:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds all too familiar..but I was on the other end of the situation.
If it's just a break, then you haven't lost her..she just needs space maybe? You can't really do anything about it...if you are truly in love with her, you'll give her the space that she needs or whatever it is.
I know it might hurt, but you have to do what makes her happy.
However, I'm not saying to disregard your own feelings. If you're not comfortable with being on a break, tell her you either need to be with her entirely as a couple, or not at all.
2007-01-14 15:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by black flats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopeful, give her the space she is asking for right now. Sometimes loving someone can also mean letting them go even when you don't want to. Be respectful of her decision. Show her what a great guy you are by simply acknowledging her feelings. Don't make her feel guilty about the request, but without saying a word show her you are the best thing that ever walked into her life.
2007-01-14 15:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she needs a break she needs a break. If you push any harder she may never come back to you. People take breaks from each other to gather their thoughts, reavaluate the relationship, and think of the future. Like they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder...just give her some room....after 2 weeks, and shes STILL needing a break...flowers and candy should do it.
2007-01-14 15:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the time she's asked for and don't smother her. If you get clingy she's only going to pull back more. If this is over then you'll have to unfortunately deal with it....you can't make someone love you. I'm sorry for your troubles, hang in there.
2007-01-14 15:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her too much...make yourself busy, u had a life before her, remember? So do thingz that u enjoy doing, go out & have fun...if she callz, limit the time to a minute, make urself sound super busy, it givez her the curiousity of what your up to, etc...remember the old saying... "if you love something, let it go...if it comez back for you, it's yourz for life, if it doesn't, move on..." I just separated from my man of 3 yearz, just takin' time apart for awhile, our ideaz...it was hard for me at first, but I'm feelin' alot better now, doing thingz I loved doing, going back to school etc...so anyway, good luck! ;)
2007-01-14 15:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT KIND OF BREAK? MAYBE HAVING DEEP FEELINGS FOR YOU SCARES HER...AND SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET HURT BY YOU, ESPECIALLY IF SHE WAS HURT BY OTHER PEOPLE IN THE PAST. WHY NOT ASK HER, AND THEN AFTER SHE GIVES U AN ANSWER THAT ISN'T SO VAGUE, HOPEFULLY THAT WILL HELP CLEAR UP ANY POSSIBLE MISUNDERSTANDINGS.
2007-01-14 15:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by CARAMIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the break it might be really needed then come back when shes cooled off
2007-01-14 15:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start off is she your wife
If she is you do not give her time off you need her to talk to you
time off sometime is there way getting some on the side
you don't want that
2007-01-14 15:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and space and be patient and wait for her... If it is meant to be she will come back to you if not then move on with your life.
2007-01-14 16:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋