I have a very close friend who is on crack. She went through Rehab already about 2 years ago. But she now using again. HELP PLEASE!!! I'm located in Fort Lauderdale FL
2007-01-14 15:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jaymee B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry to hear about this situation, i have a sister who is doing crack also. All i can tell you is no matter how much you love them, they dont see it. What really needs to be done is up to her. She needs to help herself BEFORE anyone can help her. no matter how much you love her, just dont give in to her... dont support her habits. Good luck....
2007-01-14 15:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take the "tough love" approach. If you and her family cannot get together for an "intervention" of some sort than you need to tell her you will no longer be her friend unless she comes off the drugs permanently. Than mean what you say and walk away, do not be an enabler. It is a choice she has to make and only she can make it..
2007-01-14 23:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the only one that can MAKE herelf change. Let her know that you are worried and you care and that you really want to help her. Gather information for rehab, let her know ow it is hurting herself and others. And most importantly just be there. If possible do everything you can to make it easy for her to leave for rehab. And lots of hugs and "Im here for you I really am."
2007-01-14 23:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by 0111450 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force her to quit. You need to tell her how you feel and hopefully she will get the help that she needs. There is nothing you can do but be her friend..but that doesn't mean supporting her with her habit.
2007-01-14 23:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by ferrisfamily@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an intervention. Tell her that she needs to stop or else face the consequence of losing every one around her.
2007-01-14 23:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up rehab places and show what she is doing to her body. make a major note that she is killing her self
2007-01-14 23:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be glad she has someone like you to help her. You should get help from someone older. Maybe her parents? It's hard 'backstabbing' friends, but at least it's for her own good.
2007-01-14 23:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her to go back into rehab again.
2007-01-14 23:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can help her is her.
2007-01-14 23:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to quit being a loser
2007-01-14 23:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋