I am a gay guy and I am having a real hard time finding other real, and NOT one nighter guys to have a relationship with, is it a bad idea to turn to the internet to try to find this.
2007-01-14 15:20:38 · 13 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I found the person that I fell in love with on the internet. We now live together and have been for 2years. I'm very glad I was in that chat room that day if I hadn't been than I wouldn't have found the love of my life. The girl is very amazing and is the nicest person I have ever met so I'm so glad that I was on the internet.
2007-01-14 17:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad way of meeting people. It's almost like meeting people in bars and such. Actually I used to prefer it because at bars it can become uncomfortable when someone you don't think is very attractive cruises you nonstop. I know that sounds shallow, but looks count for something. You can also chat with multiple people online at once. One final thing is that you can usually read a profile to see what they are about. This leaves less to surprise you with down the road. My partner and I had seen each other in Provincetown a couple times, but never spoke to each other. We met online and we've been together ever since!
2007-01-14 15:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by GHartf4404 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is fool proof shug.
I know is not easy but stop concentrating on sex so much and get out and do things just for fun.
I'm not saying go celibate.
I'm just saying don't go looking for a relationship when you at the club.
The club is for hooking up. (nothing wrong with that)
But acquire some other activities too.
Learn to play mahjong,
go rollerblading,
join a sports team,
take up fishing,
read lots of books.
Start orienting your life around nurturing yourself.
Cultivate yourself, enrich yourself.
Do that and you will be beaten'em' off with a stick.
Snicker, snicker. .. normally I would make an sordid remark right here but I will forgo the temptation.
anyhoo. . .
You have to invest in yourself before you are ready to invest in someone else.
Now get out there and grow, flourish and look forward to every day instead of spending the day looking forward.
Or backward for that matter.
Life is in the now as a friend of mine would say.
2007-01-14 15:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by octopussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's ANOTHER way of finding love. my brother and his wife met online. they have been together for 7 years but married for 4 years. irregardless, you find it when you find it. either at the bar, the streets, the internet, through mutual friends, or by accident. if the chemistry is there then it doesn't matter where you found each other.
2007-01-14 16:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give up just yet. I've had a lot of friends do the online dating and some worked out and some didn't. It's really up to and how much you trust the online dating system. Good luck!
2007-01-14 15:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG .. my best friend is also suffering from the same stigmas. I guess he is normally found on sites that are specifically looking for one night stands..
however there are sites out their for true love.. it's a wonderful idea.. and truthfully what do you have to lose. Just time.. and it is worth it if you find the guy of your dreams.
:)
2007-01-14 15:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a tool, it's all in the way that you use it. Be careful, meet someone in a public place, get to know them and don't rely only on the internet to make up your mind about anyone.
2007-01-14 15:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best two relationships were with people i met thru a chat line.. find a chatline or forum or sorts where you can meet people with common interests.. it's a good way to find people to talk to and develop small talk.. if you find someone who you seem to click with, then write back and forth and get to know each other better.. if things go well, then you can upgrade to phone calls, send each other pics, and eventually meet..
it is doable, but you gotta take things slow and take them one step at a time to really make sure you are getting the type of person you want, also it takes time to develop trust to make sure the person really is who they say they are..
2007-01-14 15:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, one must be careful, but I know several people, myself included, who have found someone online. I met my previous partner in a chat room. and I am now with a wonderful woman over 2 1/2 years now that I met through planetout.com.
2007-01-14 16:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're saying you've met this guy in human being a pair of circumstances, or met with the help of a video cam or something? You 2 favor to satisfy in human being and spend time mutually, in human being earlier you're making up your recommendations that that's 'severe' . there's a lot one would not study someone in the journey that they have got not hung out with them, i'm speaking about own conduct, ingesting, driving, manners, hygiene, how they have interplay with human beings, their criminal historic past. flow to his city, or he ought to flow to yours, and spend time mutually, and observe the position it is going from there.
2016-12-02 06:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋