Said he doesn't have time for him anymore. I have asked several people with no success. I texted him and told him I asked people but he needs to take responsibility for the cat. His response.. "it's handled, don't tell me about responsibilty. I said whatever and texted him, I took responsibility of life after I left you. His response.. LOL;) you weak weak classless stupid c**t. What do you think about that?
2007-01-14 14:53:16 · 27 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do appreciate all the responses. I know he's trying to play on my emotions. I know he's hurt, but I was to. Thanks all, the support from different people makes it easier to deal with. It's psychological warfare with this guy. I just can't win.
2007-01-14 15:02:57 · update #1
The best thing for you two is to cut all ties and not to speak anymore at all. You are divorced and by the sound of things, not a moment too soon, Stop texting him and if he texts you or call you ignore it or just change your number.
2007-01-14 14:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you opened up a can worms with the "after I left you" text. lol! I say text this jerk back. Say
"exactly why I left you. Being classy is being responsible...not calling someone a C**T. You ask for my help and then send me that trash".
This guy sounds like he's putting you down to make himself feel better because he knows your right and he's embarassed. Just don't sink to the name calling because after a couple days of thinking about it you'll be the bad guy. If you stay above it all you'll come out smelling like a rose and he's yesterday's trash and he'll know it.
2007-01-14 15:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since when did people who broke up have to handle the ex's problems? I thought EX MEANT NO MORE. You need to stop having any contact with him. Stop hanging on to something that is done and over with. You are creating your own problems now by not letting go and not moving on with your own life. I do hope kids are not in the picture.
2007-01-14 15:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like any other angry ex husband. Just bask in the reality that you tried to help and that you did the right thing, and let him bask in his anger. You know you're not weak, what does it matter what he thinks anyway? He's no longer in your life, so don't let him try to bring you down.
2007-01-14 15:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by sparkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just using the cat to get to you,lol lol. sounds like he's just lookin to argue some more with you,just ignore what he has to say it will get the best of him when you don't argue back,it shows him you are not playing any games you are so over him .lol
tell him if you wanted another cat you would get one from the pet store.
good luck.
2007-01-14 15:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just trying to get some drama going with the whole cat thing. Just leave it be, change your cell number and don't give it to him.
2007-01-14 14:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even in contact with your ex? If he is that abusive after the relationship I can't imagine what he was like during.
Don't set yourself up for any of this crap. You need to cut all contact with him.
2007-01-14 14:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Barb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the cat and keep it and dont give it back to him.... If you dont want to do this than tell him so and then dont talk to him anymore.
2007-01-14 14:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think classlessness abounded from the male half of this former couple.
2007-01-14 14:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hope you don't have kids...
If the cats too much, I'm sure the little ones will be worse.
...better call the shelter
2007-01-14 14:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ted Arcidi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋