i like my friend?

Question

i like my friend thats a male but i know that he only likes me as a friend and maybe more i don't know if i should tell him or no i don't want to hurt ouur friend ship at all so help me please

Answer 1

ah! the old "falling for the friend" story. well i am one to believe that you should never keep your feelings bottled up. so if you really like him, tell him. choose the right time. a moment when the two of you are hanging out and there's none or not many people around, (this kind of revelation should always be done face to face). also, just be normal about it, say something like: "hey, i dont want this to sound weird, but lately i've been thinking about as more than a friend." he'll probably just stare a you either confused or surprised, then add something like: "i wanted to know if you feel the same, if you dont i feel like thats totally cool. but i woulndt want you to feel weird or comfortable around me" and just see what he says. remember if the answer is negative and you really dont want him to feel weird around you, treat him how you always have. as if the whole thing never happened. it might feel a little weird for you then dont hang out with him as much as before, but dont give him the cold shoulder either. i hope thigns go good for you :)

Answer 2

Ah, the timeless friend question. This is different for women then men. Almost any women can get any man she wants, the odds are less for men,especially if he's not attractive to begin with and throw in broke on top of it. HOWEVER there's acceptions for every rule and I believe in fate for somethings. When your meant to be with someone it will happen. While most guys want to keep their female friends to a minimum there's not hotter to us than to hear than a woman wants us and makes the first move. This doesn't mean we think your easy but it DOES take a lot of the stress off. Man or woman the best thing is to suck it up, walk right up to the person your attracted to and TELL THEM with NO drama, bull or lines. Just be honest and hold the crying for when your home with your ice cream. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy no matter how difficult it can be. If you two are really friends you still will be. Keep it simple, don't throw yourself at him. You might want to do it when your both alone and there's no witnesses in case it doesn't go your way. You also never, man or woman want to put the person on the spot, like the dumb schmucks who propose at family parties or on stadium bill boards. Good luck and PEACE.

Vin

Answer 3

ok some problem here. hes my friend and i like him more than a friend but dont want to ruin the friendship. so i had my friend tell him and he ended up asking me out!!! all you have to do is be brave, strong, and dont worry, the worst that could happen is he will not feel the same , but dont let it get in the wa of your friendship either! have a boyfriend thats a friend also!!

Answer 4

maybe you should tell him.
if youre really good friends and he doesn't like you like that you will just put it in the past and move on
but if he does like you and you dont tell him because you are afraid you could lose a real good relationship so i say go for it

Answer 5

Ya i like a guy friend 2 but im pretty sure he just wants 2 b friends. u should ask him in a just kidding sort of way like b hey we should go 2 the movies 2morro and b like its a date and if he says like a real date? b like ya sure y not and just be totally friendly about the whole thing. then it wont b awkward

Answer 6

Don't worry just tell him. Maybe he would like to be more than friends after all!!

Answer 7

This is very delicate. If you tell him things may become awkward, and distant if his feelings don't reciprocate. But if he likes you too like you like him, then it will be a great relationship. I would only tell him if you think for even a little bit that me might like you. If he is already in a relationship, don't say anything.

Answer 8

It's hard to like someone that way when they don't like you back. If you really want to preserve your friendship with him, don't pursue him, that will only make things awkward and difficult to reamain friends.

Answer 9

well if it hurts your friend ship then he wasn't a friend at all he should be honored you told him friend can tell each other any thing

Answer 10

hey hon just ask i was in the same boat u was in i ask her and she said no so i said **** it than but we are still friends