ok well today my pastor @ my church told me he saw my myspace(which has a pic of my gurlfriend in her bra) and he wanted to talk to me about it. But he also told my mom......but i know my mom won't flip out and reject me as a child. But i'm scared of her reaction. So like i want to tell her but how do i bring it up......like how do u start the conversation. I NEED HELP ASAP PLEASE
2007-01-14 14:38:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Find time when you and her can have a private conversation alone, and tell her how you feel. If you know she is understanding, then you have nothing to worry about. She will accept your choice, but putting you life on public display on myspace is never a good idea. You should keep things like that private. It is no ones business but your own truly, and who needs small minded people like your pastor judging you.
2007-01-14 14:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would of been nice to know if you were of legal age... If so your pastor should of never spoke to your mother... And also I am wondering why your pastor was checking out myspace... Anyway you say your mother will not flip out and reject you so just tell her.... Tell her it is something very important and you need to talk to her...
2007-01-14 14:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you might want to change your MySpace to private if you have secrets to keep.
Now to your mom. Just explain to her that it's who you are. Make sure she know you aren't confused, that's an oddly common misconception about bisexuality, she may try to "convert" you. Then explain things about your girlfriend and how you feel about her. After that it's all her, if she has any issues it'll be her responsibility to get over them.
Just don't yell it out in the middle of a fight like I did.
2007-01-14 15:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm first of all , why is your pastor on myspace?? strange.
anyways ... just come out and tell your mum , just tell her you are attracted to both sex's and you really have an connection with your current girlfriend, ask her if she will like to meet her and such, im glad you said she wont be horrible about it to you, you should be fine hun it sounds like your mum is quite understanding.
2007-01-14 14:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by lil_meex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I write a complaint to his boss about him overstepping his boundaries and work your way up until something is done about it.. What he did could have cost you your life in some households. What he did was highly unprofessional and unethical. Also, prepare yourself if you're going to tell her. Make sure if you think she's going to react badly, prepare some material for her to read about homosexuality and christianity. Maybe find your local PFLAG chapter.
2007-01-14 20:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur pastor must actually be a child molester if he is getting on my space! LOL
tell your mom to talk to HIM about being on that! he's probably just going around looking for preppy whores to rape,but makeing sure the kids at the church are being good!
FVCKER!!!anyway... your mom will love u no matter wat!!! so just go and say...
" mom i need to tell you something!" good luck!
2007-01-14 15:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is your "Pastor" doing on "MY SPACE", First of all? Second, How old are you and how do you think you are BI.? Even if, that is your choice! No one should be involved if they are only going to try to CHANGE you! Best of luck!
2007-01-14 14:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her, and be honest. the best way i believe to start the conversation is. mom, i need to talk to you, don't worry nothings wrong just i want you to be informed of my life.... and just go with it.
2007-01-14 14:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by shadow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. She's your mom, no matter what, she will love you.
2007-01-14 14:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by x06734 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋