hi, my name is jill and i am in the 7th grade. I am having a problem with my best friend lexi. Well first of all, she and my other friend always hng out on the weekend and they never include me. I no that i am a little jealous but i mean shes with her almost every minute. My mom has suggested that i go with another group of friends so that i can have a better group of friends that i really no are my real friend. But i said that its just to hard to just go into another group of friends. What do i do now? Im scared to even talk to her.
2007-01-14 14:29:05 · 9 answers · asked by bxgfsbf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ur mom is right n dont talk to lexi just try i know its hard but ur mom is right
2007-01-14 14:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by mzpurrty43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 7th grade is when girls tend to get real caddy. Your mom is right. Try to get some new friends. Mom seems to be cool so ask her if you can plan a slumber party and ask a group of 5 or 6 girls over. ( not the friend you are talking about) new ones. Bake brownies and have hot fudge Sundays. watch movie laugh and connect. You sound like a great kid and you can't let these girls bother you. I will tell you this honey..... friend come and go.... but the ones worth having stick around... I am 31 and I still have friend that i had int h 6th grade. Look for those friends. Have a party!!!! have fun!!!! This is all just part of high school hell. you will get through it i promise
2007-01-14 14:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by the queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not included, you are NOT her best friend. Find other friends that will include you too. Jealousy has nothing to do with it. If she IS your friend, she wouldn't act that way. MOVE ON. You don't need to go into another group of friends. ONE at a time will do.
2007-01-14 14:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom might be on the right track, especially if these other girls don't want you around on the weekends. I know it's scary to make knew friends but are the ones you have currently, who exclude you from their weekend activities, really true friends?
2007-01-14 14:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i totally understand i am also a 7th grader life is tough but the truth might be 1 they arent your true friends or 2 they need some alone time 2gether. And i know you dont want to but talk too them say how u feel and it might help you! best wishes!
~~Aly~~
2007-01-14 14:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe instead of your friend planning stuff why dont you just plan a weekend to all hang out with eachother and talk it over then.
2007-01-14 14:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes not your only friend right? call up your other friends and go and have some fun and leave her out let her see how u fill or just go to the movies by your self and not invite her
2007-01-14 14:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend then she can take it if you question her loyalty due to the other friends she seems to have dumped you for. Upfront and honest is the best way, you have a right to know
2007-01-14 14:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you could desire to in the beginning relax because of the fact it is not one among those enormous deal. Take friend2 if the mothers and dads say specific because of the fact that's purely common and friend1 already is conscious. If her mothers and dads say no then tell friend1 that that's all sparkling to circulate.
2016-10-07 04:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋