It was so weird. She just started liking this other guy..who is such a fat hick ..let me tell ya..and my dad was so hurt by it. Then she wouldnt admit that she was seeing him for like a year after the divorce. She never offers to pay for anything like lunch money or my brothers first car. She even threatened to callthe police on my sister (13) and i (15) after we got done looking for our baby pics in her room at her new house. My friends even think its strange.
2007-01-14 14:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by natalie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why she has threaten your sister at the age of 13 call the police something is not right and as cheating on your dad she did everything the wrong way. If she won't out than she should have talk to your dad and really you can not do anything and just stay out of it just look out for your sister and make sure she is fine and lead her to the right path and set a good exsample ok
2007-01-14 14:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by daughterpictures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Either change the way you request for lunch money and skip the first car requests and become self reliant or ask someone else who is an adult family member or guardian about the baby pictures and the lunch money issue like your father or relative or school counselor or pastor. She is likely not herself as you say so don't expect her to be there for you at this time as she should as she may not be able to do so or else she is being selfish to hurt those around her. Forgive her and become a stronger better person as you battle your way through life. Focus on taking care of you and you and your brother make sure to take care of each other. Things might be different one day. Really sorry for the hurt you are experiencing. Say a prayer at night for her and for yourself to have strength of character and God will be a father and mother to you and work things out for your good if you'll love and trust Him to do so. He cares for you more than you know.
2007-01-14 14:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom doesn't love your Dad because she cheated on him. This type of individuals only love themselves and the kids come after their lover in turn. It is her loss. Support your Daddy on everything and give your mother the space she wants. She will regret it overtime. It is best that your parents divorce but I know it is very hard for all of you. Together you can manage. If you are 13 or 13+ you are not obligated to visit your mother (I will not visit her if she is such a *****). If your mother ask you why you do not visit her than tell her exactly what is on your mind. (expressing your feelings is very healthy for you). You will have better times ahead of you.
2007-01-14 14:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has some things to hide--but is it any different if she was going through your things in your room?? People change after a divorce even your own parent--be patient with her and see if just loving her because she is your Mom wont help--
2007-01-14 14:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is strange but you really should stay out of it as she is your mom and must work out her own life and make her own decisions... This is really up to the adults and not you... Sorry. If she does not stop cheating your dad needs to let her go.
2007-01-14 14:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell her how you feel if you dont want her to cheat tell her if she loves you she will stop cheating and she will find a man she is happy with that usually works my mom was cheated on by a dude and my mom knows how it feels tell her that she is hurting the ppl that she is cheating on because she may not relise it but she is and she will endup old with a cat and no husband if she keeps cheating.
2007-01-14 14:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd distance myself way away from her. Sounds like you're both old enough to decide who you'd rather live with.
2007-01-14 14:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
every physique makes errors. God says in Qur'an that in case you repent and convey regret he will forgive you and eliminate you of your sins simply by fact he's the main Merciful, Oft-Returning. So what your father needs to do is repent for his sins and not purely that yet make the purpose to not do it returned. If he's relatively loopy approximately this different woman and if being interior the marriage will reason him greater temptations to cheat then he would desire to truly divorce his spouse and marry the lady who's loopy over. the priority is solved. that's that easy. Now regrettably your stepmother won't in any respect like this, of direction simply by fact this could destroy her coronary heart enormously having to have confidence him and turning out to be up with him believing in God, it is going to be very painful for her to soak up. not purely that yet she enjoyed him, and he or she exchange into there for him for over 30years and now that she is previous and has lots of issues her husband turn in direction of a youthful woman and via the marriage desperate to cheat for not purely as quickly as, yet for 5months today! this is going to be very painful for her you be responsive to and that i in my opinion wish she places God first in her existence simply by fact each thing is a attempt and each thing in this international would desire to not be appropriate. we at the instant are not residing in paradise, we stay in this international it is packed with issues and errors. for this reason God says we would desire to continually placed Him first earlier a number of those issues simply by fact a number of those issues can harm us. So i in my opinion wish that she gets upset simply by fact this shows she hates injustice and that i additionally wish she forgives him and forgets him simply by fact she has to enable bypass. And if she does this for the sake of God she would be able to be rewarded, and he or she would be able to be remembered in sha Allah(Godwillingly).
2016-10-19 23:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be very hurtful when a parent acts like this towards you...........but please try to ignore her attitude and stay out of this.
2007-01-14 14:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. You probably don't know all of what's going on.
2007-01-14 14:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋