she goes as far as trying to get ex girlfriends involved and we have been married for 2 years now.
2007-01-14 14:19:53 · 5 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to get your husband involved in this problem. Dr Phil mentions on his show that its up to the son or daughter to deal with their parents if they are causing problems in the marriage.
There needs to be a discussion between son and mother after you talk to your husband then maybe a discussion between the three of you.
2007-01-14 14:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how would she feel if her inlaws do her the way she is doing you. Suppose you get her husband's ex-girls to call him. Once a man marries, he is to foresake all others, and you and him become as one. Ask him did he remember taking those vows before God? He needs to stand up as a man of his household and he need not be afraid. Mom is now second, the husband and wife are first, then their children. He needs to tell mother that you are his wife that he choose to protect, honor, and cherish, and that she needs to stop harrassing you. What God has put together, let know man assunder.
2007-01-14 14:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by paris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to dinner and ask her straight out in front of every1 why she proceeds to try and destroy your marriage. That way every1 can see the evil she has in her.. Was in the same situation with my bf of 9yrs's mother.. he always said i was just paranoid and needed to let it be. So i took matters into my own hands and exposed her for who she really is. She no longer is welcomed in our home till she can grow up and except that we're together. been going on 5months now and the only 1 miserable is her.
2007-01-14 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by SiKofPsYchos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your problem. If you speak up, she will have reason to fight and frustrate you.
This is a situation for your husband. He needs to step up and put his balls on the line -- if he has any.
He should be able to handle his momma and speak to her on both your and his behalf. He should tell his momma -- hey momma, look here. You like to invite these old g/f of mine to family events but I (emphasize I) do not think it is cool since it is offensive to me and my wife. He should not go and say, my wife told me to tell you........ . A man who cannot stand up for his wife is a wimp and lacks all manner of ballz.
Such situations are real simple: Will the real men please stand up?
2007-01-14 14:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to BACK OFF
2007-01-14 14:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋