Just wondering I just found out the other day and she didn't tell me!
2007-01-14 14:18:35 · 28 answers · asked by Paul H 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
my mom never told me untill i found out on a form
2007-01-14 14:27:35 · update #1
im a guy im talking about my birth i just found out
2007-01-14 16:01:06 · update #2
I dont actually know but it wasnt nice to find out on a form.
My Mum always told my brothers and I our birth stories every year on our birthdays since we were very little. So I cant imagine finding out on a form, how you were born.
I thought all Mums told their kids how they were born from a very young age.
Sorry. I understand why your upset.
Thats alright I only found out last year my umbilical cord was wrapped around my neck when I was born. I knew that happened to my brothers, but not me. So I was quite upset my Mum had just forgotten to tell me all these years.
2007-01-14 19:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it should be on a need to know basis. She didn't need to know but now that she does it would be appropriate to tell her about it. Make sure you tell her on her age level though. Too much info isn't good.Just make sure you tell her the real facts and ask if she has any questions.Times like this is when you start a very deep personal relationship that stays through her lifetime.
2007-01-14 22:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you phrase it in a positive way ("I wanted you SO much, that the doctors hurried up and took you out of me...." --you can get as graphic as the kid can stand, esp. if he plays video games!), then the child will feel good!
If you say it like, "OMIGAWD! I was in pain for HOURS! I nearly DIED 'cause of YOU"...etc", then yeah, the kid might feel lousy (or glad, if he hates his mom)! But just remember: women LOVE to relate their childbirth stories to just about anyone who'll listen. I don't, but I can see why: it IS pretty excruciating (for most women) and it IS a big deal to bring a new life into the world!).
Just remember, however you got here, your mom CHOSE to have you and keep you! That should tell you she loves you!
2007-01-14 22:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by SieglindeDieNibelunge 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I told my daughter just as soon as she asked how she came out. She is 4.5. She knows all about the fact that I had a c section and she also knows I had a c section with her sister that is 5 weeks old. Im sorry she didnt tell you sooner. ~Kristin~
2007-01-14 22:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually don't think that a c section is a big deal, and wether or not you were born through one should not bother you. The way that you're so upset makes me wonder if you actually know what a c section is.......
2007-01-14 22:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? i was a c section baby 2. and im glad. i didnt have to come out of my moms coochie haha and have a cone head. be happy. lol I am
2007-01-15 00:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica's advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would they even ask? You had a baby didn't you. I have never heard of anyone ever stressing about this. I thought it was adoption that was difficult to tell kids about
2007-01-14 22:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by MeggieMae W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women who have a "C" section don't have a choice in the matter. And really what does it matter. Life is life and we get here one way or the other.
2007-01-14 22:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Huh? Who didn't tell you? Your child? Be more specific. And does it really matter how you had your child just as long as your the real father and the mom's the real mom?
2007-01-14 22:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you were adopted or anything. She has a right to her privacy and if she didn't want to tell you she had you from a c-section than that's her business.
2007-01-15 01:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋