is it real love?

Question

I have been with my wife for 10 years and every day she ask me do I love her. every time we go out she always think that Iam looking at other women and she just started this. I have never cheated on her I come from a era were gangs and drug dealing was my life. my mom and dad was on drugs. growing up with drugs and violence always in the home. she comes from a good family so I want my family to be normal but it is so hard trying to prove to her that just cause I lived around it, thats not me. I do every thing for her I cook, clean and take care of my kids take her out when she wants I bought her things that no one have ever did. but when we argue she always want to leave and take the kids knowing that I do not really have no family. she and the kids is all the family I have. am I doing the right thing by trying to give her everything

Answer 1

Sorry to say this - she seems to be self-centered and insecure. Stop doing everything for her, or this will go on for the rest of your life.

Answer 2

It sounds like your wife has major problems and your the one thats breaking the cycle and being the stable one. She shouldn't be asking you every day if you love her, who does that? That seems way out there to me...very insecure. After been married for ten yrs wouldn't she know this. Why are you doing do much for her, your enabling her crazy behavior. Make some demands on her, help her to get better,you deserve to have a good wife. It can't just be one way.

Answer 3

When you go out to eat with your wife, don't look around as much. Just look at your wife and pay attention to what she is saying. Act interested. Prove to her that you love her by doing something very special or romantic. That's all I could say and I hope you luck! :]

Answer 4

Maybe she thinks you're so great that she's terrified of loosing you which might be why she keeps asking you if you love her.