What do you do when everyone keeps ditching you for stupid reasons and you have nothing to do?
2007-01-14 14:01:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
keep tring the right person will come along.
2007-01-14 14:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you rubbing people the wrong way.
Are you a good listener?
Do you talk about funny or interesting things?
Are you quick to laugh?
Do you avoid taking yourself too seriously.
Are you a good cook.
Do you enjoy playing games?
Do you like to dance? and listen to music?
These are things people do when having fun with friends.
Or do you talk a little to much about your problems?
Do you talk more about what is bothering you than what is going on in other peoples lives?
Enough negative descriptions. . .
Go out and find yourself a new group of friends.
Get involved in activities you might try taking a class or joining a team of some kind.
Point is get out and actually do stuff.
Don't wait for people to do it with just do it.
Go skating/rollerblading, take yourself out for coffee/tea with a good book and learn to entertain yourself.
When you learn to be happy doing things with yourself you will attract other people to you.
Now get out there and do what makes YOU happy.
Have fun kid.
And fruit cake lady has a good point. . .
do some volunteering.
Helping others is always a good thing.
2007-01-14 22:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by octopussy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out why. Are they really busy or is there a reason they would be avoiding you? If you don't come up with anything, figure out if you're just paranoid. I get like that sometimes. It seems like just when I really need to talk to someone, everyone is busy. It's very depressing. But I learned to just be by myself. It was really hard, but it actually made me a stronger person. Maybe reach out to people you have never talked to before. I had a group of friends do me like that, and it was really hard. After the fact I found out there was really no reason, they just got sick of hanging out with me. It really hurt me but at the same time made me stronger. I learned how to go out, make new friends, and pretty much do things on my own. Now one of them is trying to repair the friendship after 5 years have passed but I know I don't need her anymore.
2007-01-14 22:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being ditched often?
Just be yourself and get on with your own life, Then you will find yourself ditching them.
Know yourself!(what you like and dislike) Don't follow the crowd
When your busy living your own life, its like grlgnius as said this attracts others they will want to know what makes you tick.
2007-01-14 22:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there ditching you for a reason either your blinded by it or your just ignorant figure it out since you seem to be a wise a ss about every one elses problems
2007-01-14 22:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going for long walks. Volunteer at the hospital. There are lots of things you can do that would help.
2007-01-14 22:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not here to answer ur question but i think you need to be a little less snobby when you answer peoples question i mean you told that girl she sounded like she was in the 6th grade thats mean and snobby ur are just hateful and i dont care if ur mad at me
2007-01-14 22:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by lovemonkey05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then I realize that they just don't like me, and do my own thing, like go book shopping or go for coffee, talk to my siblings.
2007-01-14 22:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find fun activities you can do alone like reading or solitaire.
2007-01-14 22:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by lil star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋