My friend is annoying/ brags?

Question

My best friend got pretty annoying the last time she came over. We haven't talked in a long time and she hadn't come over in a long time either. She's been trying to lose weight since 7th grade. She weighed 150 lbs. Her mom put her on a strict diet and she lost up to 140 lbs last year. Then, she joined a sports team and lost 5 lbs. She came over and she was all like, "Basketball is a pain." I chuckled because of how she was complaining, but then out of nowhere she says "Even if I went down to a size 6, I'm still annoyed about being in it" Me: ....*annoyed*
I used to be a size 6, but I guess I got pretty jealous because she's getting closer to my size. I shrunk down to a size 4-5. ...

Answer 1

If she's your best friend why can't she complain about doing something she doesn't like? And why do you feel like you have to stay skinnier? You should feel happy for her that she lost weight and just let her blow off steam about being annoyed.

Answer 2

dude..now you guys can exchange clothes.
guys will check you BOTH out.
and you can probably relate to each other better. i mean she's not down to her size YET. but don't you think it's at least better NOW, than when she was 150lbs? and she had to go into a different size range than you? sheesh. try not to be so self centered...and think of how much better SHE must feel. and how she's at least proud that she got CLOSE to how you are. take it as a compliment. not an insult. and maybe take a piece of humble pie.

Answer 3

I think allot of fat people are nuts then fat must clog their brains. This girl i work with weighs about 250 she lost 15 pounds last year in January and said she was freezing because she lost so much weight. Plus she was always lift ting her blouse and showing off her "skinny" belly while everyone really wanted to barf because of the blubber. opposite of bulimia "I think"

Answer 4

She should do something fun, instead of basketball, if she doesn't like it. Soccer is popular. Or, you could offer to go jogging with her. Or she could do what I did: buy a treadmill and plop it right down in front of your TV.

Annoying people are terrible to be around. However, fat people usually tend to be a lot of fun to be around. (Think Chris Farley- funniest man ever.) I think if your friend had more confidence, and was willing to laugh at herself, then she would be more fun, too.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like she's saying she's annoyed because of what she's had to do to lose the weight. I don't know but if my friend was over weight or wanted to lose weight and she did, i'd be thrilled for her and we'd both brag about it. LOL

Answer 6

You should say" You should like me for who i am not about the outside. If you still want to be friend we can be but lets not judge each other

Answer 7

It happens to all of us at least once. Also at least once we are on the other side as well.

See how things go and if no improvement then either sease as a friend or tell her how it is but nicely please.

Answer 8

You no shood get too small. You are small enough already. She is just look for you to give her complimints is all. She have no self esteem and want you to tell her she look good.

Jagshemash.

Answer 9

wow i think your over reacting alot. let her be happy about losing weight, she hasnt had the chance to brag and who better than her best friend to brag to? chill out and be happy for someone else.

Answer 10

So you gone keep losin weight cuz yo friend keep gettin thinner. You gone kill yo self.