wait untell my son will be older so he can be in it ?..... im 38 weeks preggo and due jan 31 do you think it really matters?
2007-01-14 13:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by [♥] KaDeN's MoMmY [♥] 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I got married when I was pregnant also. If I were you I would not plan the wedding for a month from now. Either do it sooner (before baby), or later. It takes a little while for your body to fully recover from being pregnant and giving birth (who wants to not be allowed to have sex on their wedding night???). Plus, being a new mommy is exhausting (yes, more so than being in your 3rd tri). I think I would do it once the baby was a few months older so you and "Daddy" can get a few nights away on a honeymoon while someone watches your little one. If, however, getting married is something you REALLY want right away, why not do an informal ceremony now with just the two of you, and maybe your folks - then plan for a more formal "wedding" a few months from now? Get the best of both worlds (plus, who can pass up TWO wedding nights ;P Whatever you choose, best of luck to you ALL!!
2007-01-14 14:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your gut on this one. My friend did get married while pregnant. I think it was the best decision for her because it made things less complicated. Honestly, you'd have to wait years for your son to even know the difference. If it were me, I'd probably just get married next month.
2007-01-14 14:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married when you want to, but I think next month might be a little tough on you considering you'll have just given birth. I would give it a couple months to get into the routine and then get married, but do whatever feels right to you.
2007-01-14 17:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Serena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i got married when my daughter was 3 months and 2 days old so I dont think it matters. Im gonna get married again but by church later and i will have my daughter that will probably be like 3 yrs old and my son will be like 2 yrs old so i dont think it matters.
2007-01-14 14:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love the man get married next. Why would you wait. i got married just 4 months ago, i was 17 weeks pregnant. I dont think you should put it off unless you aren't sure about the marriage.
2007-01-14 14:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and get married if that's what you want. Later looking back you can tell your son that he was there, but he was in your belly at the time!
2007-01-14 14:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa Breazeale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely your choice. You may want to marry when the babe is born or you may want to marry right away. If you are ready for marriage then you can go for it now.
2007-01-14 14:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no get married before he is born it may matter to him later.
2007-01-14 14:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married before he is born. It will be easier.
2007-01-14 14:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it really matters - follow your heart.
2007-01-14 14:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋