I'm kind of tall for my age and a lot taller that girls my age. I don't feel normal sometimes and I wish I was shorter. I'm 5'3'' and I'm 12.
2007-01-14 13:53:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'd like to make you feel better, and at the same time I won't dismiss the fact that you are tall. According to American growth charts, you are taller than 90% of girls your age.
That's not something you can change. What you need to change is your attitude about being tall. You need to feel GOOD about being tall, and be proud of yourself.
If you only knew how many girls are jealous that you are so tall... or if you only knew how many girls wish they were as tall as you... if you are teased about your height it is only because that's what kids do. They tease one another for the things that make them stand out from the crowd. Kids are teased for being short just as often as kids are teased for being tall... kids are teased for being fat, skinny, freckled, shy, etc. It's simply not easy being a kid!
Many girls who are tall will slouch to appear shorter. Never do this! It will not only affect your posture now, but can give your shoulders a permanent hunch and affect your posture for life! Please stand tall and straight... be proud, because tall is beautiful.
Have a look at models... do you see any short ones? Models are tall because tall is beautiful.
All you can do about your height is embrace it. And if anyone ever tries to make you feel bad about yourself because of your height, try to remember that they are trying to knock you down because they feel bad about themselves... they compare themselves to you and feel short... or they may simply feel bad about themselves in general and want to pull you down to the same level. Try to be strong and let others know that you are very happy with your height and you love being tall. You are very fortunate to be so healthy and blessed.
2007-01-14 19:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of help do you want? There isn't anything anyone can do about your height or age. ;) My daughter was that height at your age, and is now 5'6". It's nice to be on the tall side, and in another couple years, people will envy you for your height. Just be sure and stand up straight and have good posture so you don't have problems with your back or shoulders when you get older. It doesn't help to try to look shorter. You'll look graceful and pretty if you stand tall. I think you're very lucky.
2007-01-14 22:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont be ashamed of your height. I am 13 and 5'9 I used to be ashamed but now I know I can use it for my advantage. Are you worried that you will never have a boyfriend? Dont worry in high school all the guys get taller! Dont ever wish your were shorter, I've been taller than all the kids my age since i was in pre-school. If you ever need any advice dont be afraid to ask.
2007-01-14 22:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax about it all. No matter what your height, your weight, hair color, etc. At your age you're going to feel abnormal no matter what. There is nothing I can write that would make you believe that it's all a phase and to relax. I know it's hard and traumatic but rest assured everyone goes though those awkward years. 99% survive it with few scars. The other 1% actually learn from it and are better people.
2007-01-14 22:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by briardan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need any help since u dont have any problem and believe me ur not abnormal(6.2" 17yr old)But the best thing to do some sport fittin ur height like basketball so everyone will look at you as a Kool basketball player n u would be even more popular than other others,Follow youre dreams n know it:life is not gonna be that long to regret or give up on anything.
2007-01-14 22:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by bittermohsen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.. i was the same way.. i was 5'4" when i was 12.. and at that age.. i was taller than all the girls and most guys too (cause most in my grade hadn't hit groth spurge yet. and im still taller than most girls. im 15 now and 5'8"ish.. your not alone. you just have to except it. its nothing you can change. embrace it and carry it with confidence. NEVER put yourself done for something you can change about yourself.
2007-01-14 22:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by cutelilprep09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run it's no biggie. Just remember no one feels normal at your age.
2007-01-14 21:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Smitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. be proud of your hieght. believe me everybody will grow a lot taller than you in the long run.
2007-01-14 21:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by scarlettaCAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not tall...are you kidding me? i was 5'6 when i was 12. and there was still one or two kids taller than me. i dont knwo wear you go to school..
2007-01-14 22:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, the good thin' is they look up to u and there is no need to feel abnormal
2007-01-14 22:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by b.diamonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋