would you be willing to give up your house and job to move across country to be with the one that you love?
2007-01-14 13:53:01 · 13 answers · asked by killer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow! what a decision. yes. if you really, truely love them, yes. that is what life is about, jumping in head first to what you don't know. it is really scary but you might really enjoy the changes. good luck!
2007-01-14 14:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would discuss it with the one I was so in love with and decide whether or not it was a wise decision, I have children so staying close to family is more important than it would be if it were just myself. If I had an awesome job that I really liked and had put in a lot of years there, I would have to consider whether or not it was wise to up and leave because some jobs give benefits after so many years, etc. You need to weigh all the pro's and con's with your love and decide what would be the best decision for both of you. If he loves you, he will give you his honest opinion and support it, no matter what you choose. Sometimes waiting until the time is right is best. Good luck!
2007-01-14 22:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would and I did. My husband was in construction. He traveled all over the US.. I had a choice, travel with him and be near him all the time OR stay at home and see him only when the work was slow. It is a tough choice, but if you really love someone you are willing to give up "things" to be with that person. I will never regret giving up everything to be with the one I loved. When he passed away a few years ago, THEN I got to put the other things that were important to me first. I would give up so much of what I have now to just have him near me again.
2007-01-14 22:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Only if we are married. If I did move across country to be with the one I love, I would not sale my house I would rent it out because you may have to come back home.
2007-01-14 21:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by paris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I did. We're a military family so we actually have to give things up quite often so my husband can have the career he wants. For the most part I'm happy with that decision. Some days I miss home but not that often.
2007-01-14 21:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long I had known and loved this person. If it is a new relationship, then no, I wouldn't. Too risky and I'm a practical person. If I knew this person was my soul mate, then yes, I'd take the chance.
2007-01-14 21:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by TPhi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope if the person loves me he'll come to me or meet both ways. Why should only you give up what you've worked for. I wouldnt do it.
2007-01-14 22:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by SiKofPsYchos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What you won't do, do for love, you'll try everything, but you won't give up. In my world only you make me do for love what I would not do." I don't know who sang that song but the words are true when in love people will do anything.
2007-01-14 21:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-14 21:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, for my husband, I would move heaven and earth to be with him. When you find your sole mate in life, you have to be together no matter what.
2007-01-14 21:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋