Ive written on here beofre the babys father told me to get an abortion etc.. has not been there for me at all since i told him. Anyway he supposed to be coming over 2nite. IM a little worreid cuase i read a cosmo article that the #1 reason boyfirnes kill thier girlfreinds is unwatned pregnancy " to get rid of the problem" . anwyay it is just going to be the two fo us here. Ive already told my mom his full name and that he's coming over. He might have had a change of heart. Should i let him over? and please hurry he will be here any minute.
2007-01-14 13:39:46 · 34 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i just buzzed him through at the gate. agh.
2007-01-14 13:42:19 · update #1
THANKS. and im ok. i only got to read a few of the replies before he got in here and when he first got here i was scared shitless and i was keepin an eye on him. But luckily everything turned out ok and he is gone now. thank you for your help!!!
2007-01-14 17:40:51 · update #2
What are you thinking...of you are at all worried, tell him sorry, not tonight. Maybe you should have met him in a public place where there are alot of people around in case something happens. Good Luck...Come and pick a best answer or and a line to your question so we know that you are alright in the morning...
2007-01-14 13:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by alybr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats something u have to decide for yourself...If he is going to be tehre any minute it is too late to tell him not to come over..yeah guys kill there girlfriends for this reason but they do it for other reasons as well..U should have told him its kind of late for this and to come by in the morning,when it is much safer..Keep all the lights on n the house,th tv and make sure the phone is near by just in case he tries arguing with you..Im sure u are in safe hands,he might just be coming over to talk and change his mind...u never know he might even want some booty (but dont give it up)...Im sure he is not coming over to kill you...just be patient and relaxed,all will be fine...whatever he tells u just remember that u can do this alone and u dont need a man to tell u what to do with your own body..good luck!
2007-01-14 13:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the heavens I really hope he doesn't get violent. Just agree to whatever he says at the moment, be polite, understanding. Then, if you really think your life is in danger, go to your mom, call the police to get protection. When it comes to the baby, if you want to have the baby do, but if you do not want to have the baby, get the abortion. It is your choice after all. I am pro choice. If your life is in danger because of a 2 week old embrio, please consider abortion only and only if you want to do it. You can always have a child when you are ready. Life is not a cygote or an embrio alone, life is an ongoing process. If you ever choose to have a child, he or she will be waiting for you in some cosmic waiting room. Please take the necesary precautions with that man. If he shows signs of violence, leave him. But do get a restriction order if you think you are in danger
2007-01-14 13:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by LumiereLady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I thought for one minute that my boyfriend was going to kill me because I was pregnant......... HELL NO! I wouldn't let him in my house for anything!!!
What are you thinking? Go with your gut.
If he has never shown any violent tendencies then why are you worried about an article you read in a magazine??
I read once that having a baby in my 30's could lead to downs syndrome and raise the risk for other birth defects.......... I had my 5th child when I was 34.
The lesson here is not to believe everything you read in Cosmo.
2007-01-14 13:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by RaLoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the door when he comes over if you have a bad feeling about it already! Your gut instinct is there for a reason!
You can tell him you were sick and couldn't get to the door or something, anything, but seriously wait till someone else is there as well.
FYI I think you're doing the right thing by keeping the baby! :-)
2007-01-14 13:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, let him in. grown men were designed to kill other women. Also remember that Isoprophyl Alcohol can be purchased in varying strengths of upto 90% proof which could greatly improve your chances of burning your house down if you really wanted to do so just for fun.
Does it make sense to start a fire in your home? Then why are you considering letting a lunatic come over and sleep with you?
Garbage in. Garbage out.
2007-01-14 13:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason to believe he is violent? I'm thinking you made this up....
Do you really think going to prison for murder is easier than dealing with a pregnancy? I don't think it is as common as the article said.
Call your mother and tell her to come over if you are that worried and good luck!
You need to use spell check, it is crazy how many words you have mispelled if this is serious.
2007-01-14 13:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by jm1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!1
2007-01-14 13:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to get into an argument with him. If he gets angry tell him what he wants to hear. If you are really afraid that he will murder you, you should call the police. Do you have a friend that you could arrange to have pop in unexpectedly? Listen to what he has to say, and see where that takes you. Best of luck.
2007-01-14 13:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is best for you and the baby.Hope the baby makes it and i am so happy for you and your baby.NOT THE BOYFRIEND PART. is the 1 coming over the 1 that banged you up and got u pregnant and if so just like i said b4 DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RITE!
2007-01-14 13:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by lexmark_z_35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋