Okay this is weird for me to be asking and weird that I am the step daughter. I am a out lesbian and soon after my dad married this very sexy lady who is my step mom, I started getting vibes from her. sexual ones. It was New Years eve when it all happened. We were in the kitchen together talking and making snacks for the party and she just grabbed me pushing me against the stove. I was shocked as she started taking my shorts down and ripping off my blouse. We ended up doing it on the kitchen floor and now she is after me like mad. calls me 5-6 times a day. sent flowers to me at work. left her panties on my car.
I am so afraid to be alone with her that it might happen again.
My dad hasnt got a clue. He thinks its fabulous that we get along sooo well and told me the other day how much rebecca just loves me. Well here we have another problem. She told me she is IN LOVE WITH ME. What a mess. My dad is newly married and spent a fortune on the wedding just to show his love. HELP!!!
2007-01-14 13:35:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
can we say jerry springer?
2007-01-14 14:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by loveablegirlybg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well this might be a good question if it was a true one.....I'm just wondering why u posted one about a hour ago about having 2 boyfriends, by the way, was about a funny question as this one is......My recommendation is something that you said in your other question about having a dog but it is not enough.......Give him some more peanut butter and then you will be happy for life you wouldnt need 2 boyfriends or be a lesbian anymore.....Then maybe you can ask a question about women and animals.
2007-01-14 13:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by lefry42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have three ways to get out of this situation...
First one: Tell her she's not your type and you really want things to work out with her and your dad. Tell her if she doesn't stop coming on to you that your going to discuss it with your father. Save everything she sends you and start recording her phone conversations with you b/c at some point she might turn around and tell your dad you came on to her and you wont leave her alone.
Second one: Tell your dad whats going on, but have proof, so she can't deny it or anything. One way or another things get out and you dont want to get burned!
Otherwise you need to avoid your dad and her for sometime or always have a friend go with you when you go over there or around them.
2007-01-14 13:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the table was turned, if someone you just spent a fortune to marry had secretly slept with your father, how would you want him to handle it? I agree--you need to set some solid boundaries. I have another question...if this lady was having an affair with anyone else, would you even hesitate to talk to your dad about it? Are you afraid of hurting him or are you afraid of the consequences of having sex with her? You are only as sick as your secrets...
2007-01-14 13:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by honeygirl0511 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell ur dad cuz his the only 1 that can help u and if he doesnt belive u then move go with a friend or just tell ur step mom 2 back off. well good luck
2007-01-14 13:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by bOSsy b1tC8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is odd, but if u liked her b4 your parents got together, then IDK, but you're technically not really brother and sister, seeing that shes your step sister now through marriage, but it may be weird for the rest of your brothers to see that, and if for some reason it goes bad between the 2 of you, then what??? if they never married then it wouldn't of mattered right, so is it a big deal, well not to me, but it might be to others, but then who cares, society shouldn't be able to dictate what one should do, fcuk them and they need to mind their own damn business, like their life are so perfect, but they are quick to judge and have a opinion that shouldn't be relevant, so make your own rational decision, but think of how this may effect you later on in life. now i know you asked for an opinion, but you seem to be competent to make a sound judgment call, on what you think is best. (for people with negative opinions, rember that it is said that eve was made from adams rib, so the were related somehow too!!!! bet you see nothing wrong with that story)
2016-05-24 03:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW... Girl... good luck with that. it sounds like you and your dad are close, but you are going to have to stay away from that woman. I don't want you two to stop getting along, but she is going to have to accept that she is your step mother and that you two will NEVER be... BTW.. how did you let her get into your pants?... you should have stopped her when she kissed you...Anyways... good luck
2007-01-14 13:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by WhoDidThat??? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have let that happen in the first place !!
think of your dad and how hurt he will be when he finds out ..and he will find out
you need to keep your distance from her and let her know in no certain terms that you are not interested in her...unless you are...then that is another story
good luck to you
2007-01-14 13:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 08:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering this is not a joke you two better cool it. But you need to tell your dad what happened
2007-01-14 13:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your father and deny the sex, men even fathers don't forgive as well as moms do. tell him deny the sex, say she is just trying to be evil. the woman is a mess she needs to go and you have the power to do it~
2007-01-14 14:12:22 · answer #11 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋