why is it always men who cheat?

Question

wats the point in getting married. how do u make sure the one you marry wont cheat?

OK OK. women cheat too... happy? its just ive seen waaay more men cheat than woman. and guys care more about looks so i just sort of assumed...

Answer 1

Darn. Only guys cheat? Do you wonder who they cheat with? Cartoon characters? Ghosts? Figments of your imagination? Men cheat. Women cheat. But, I suppose women cheat because----Why? I suppose you'd blame women cheating on men, global warming on men, hurricanes, men again. Rainy weather- men Men cheat cuz some men want to cheat. Women cheat cuz some of them want to cheat. What that proves is that some people aren't very good or honest. Men blaming women or women blaming men is silly. It should be humans against subhuman cheaters- no matter which sex they happen to be.

Answer 2

It isn't always men but statistics do show that they cheat at a higher rate than women. I believe with everything I read that it was like 55% of women and 75% of men cheat. Some say it is biological and hormonal. I say we have a brain, we are not just mindless animals. We have to be able to rise above instinct.

Just trusting won't keep a partner from cheating. Lots of people that trusted were cheated on. I say read up on the "typical signs" ask lots of questions. If you can get a partner to talk about some of their feelings towards others before it gets to the cheating stage it may lessen the chance of it occurring. Also realistically since most men do cheat, be flexible on how you will handle it. A lot of people will tell you to leave but that isn't always possible depending on your religious beliefs or family unit.

Sometimes you just have to go for it and trust "your" self to find the person right for you.

Answer 3

It is not always men who cheat just to let you know... Women can be just as unfaithful as men are.... You have to make sure the one you marry is the right one and date for a long time I would say at least a year and see if they can stay true to you while you are dating and engaged... If they cannot then dont marry them and move on. If they really love you they wont cheat anyway.

Answer 4

Point number one: It ISN'T always the men who cheat. Point number two: You CAN'T make sure the one you marry won't cheat. Food for thought: If you both want to enter the marriage contract for all the same reasons and have the same reasonable expectations, I guess you could go for it. Otherwise, take a wait-and-see stance or give up the marriage notion. More importantly, I suspect, in your case, is to get assurance (in writing) that any children you BOTH parent will be supported by him as legal father.

Answer 5

There are no sure things in this world and no guarantees. You have to trust and honor the person you are marrying totally. Part of giving your whole self to someone is taking all of the equations out of it. You just need to make sure that you are in your relationship 100% and that you are not holding anything back. If you don't trust this guy enough to not think about him cheating then you need to really reflect on if you should be getting married in the first place.

Answer 6

The point of getting married is to spend the 'rest of your life' or however long you have on this earth with the person you love and want to grow old with. Having that person as your best friend, someone you can talk to about anything is always helpful. there is no known 'formula' to be able to know someone won't cheat on you. When you start a relationship is should be based on trust, respect, friendship and love. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything. Trust helps you to 'know' or have faith that your partner will not cheat on you.

Answer 7

there is no way of knowing if the man we choose will cheat or not. we have to go into each new relationship thinking the best, with hopes, and dreams, we can't know the future. but sometimes if we look into his past, see how he handles himself in a stressful situation, if he has children and how he takes care of them. women cheat also, not just the men. we all want to marry and have that special someone we can call our very own, but unfortunately some cheat, and it may be the ones we least expect will. unless u have a crystal ball u won't be able to tell which ones will cheat and who will not. but a man's past is a good predictor of their future. if the man we choose was married before, we really have to look and see how he treated his ex wife, or ex girlfriends, and not believe everything we are told. if we see something in their past, and ignore it, or think it won't happen to us, we may be sadly mistaken one day.

Answer 8

It isn't always the men who cheat! Women cheat too!

Instead of rushing into marriage and getting all caught up in the excitement of the engagement and the wedding, you should concentrate more on the relationship. Realizing that marriage is just like everyday life is key. Both marriage and life have their ups and their downs but you have to stick together through them or you'll never succeed. Those vows don't say "for better or worse" for nothing!

Answer 9

That assumption isn't right - probably about 40% of women also "cheat." You may marry the guy of your dreams, think he'll never cheat, but circumstances change, people change, and so the cheating spouse may just have grown into it. There are all sorts of reasons for it. But be worried if it's only with one partner who wins your mate's emotional love.

Answer 10

Women cheat just as much. Don't delude yourself on that point.

You can know the character of your partner before you marry, that's what the courtship period is for. However, know this, people change and if the marriage is not maintained and kept healthy even the best of people will stray or think of straying. Marriage functionality takes two people putting in their best efforts at all times.

Marriage is hard work.