hey.. I feel depressed sometimes because i'm not happy with myself.. i'm 5'6 and think i'm too tall to be a girl 17 years old.. I think i'm too white skinned i wouldn't want to be so white but i dont wanna go taining because i think i'll look worse.. i want bigger boobs but i cant ger a surgery.. i would like to loose a lil bit of weight but that i can fix.. I think my eyes are too big and some what far apart.. but overall i guess i've made progress on how i used to feel before to now.. because before it was worst.. so overall i think i'm pretty if not i wouldn;t have a boyfriend N i wouldn;t get so much looks and compliments but i still cant feel good about myself i dont know why.. with all the compliments i get.. I still cant feel that good inside of me.. N it kills me to know that there are prettier girls in my school.. maybe looks aint everything but they are very important to me.. so what do u think i should do about my physical apperance N how i feel.. thankkk youuuuu :-)
2007-01-14 12:56:28 · 9 answers · asked by girl223 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i am in your situation all the time!! and i am 14. so i know i wear my favorite clothes and makeup to make me feel better and if neone gives me crap i punch them. but you shouldn't worry about alot of these things because they are really superficial and those things really shouldn't matter. So just look in the mirror and tell yourself your beautiful and it'll make you feel much better. remember you are who you are and no one can change that. your also very beautiful the way you are!!
2007-01-14 13:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that sports does help a lot in developing and maintaining a healthy and attractive appearance(sexy shape), thus adding alot of confidence. Beauty comes from within, just be natural, and surround yourself(as far as possible)with the right people, they, too, have a great effect on how you feel about yourself. Being pritty...mmh...I can just say that slender(not skinny!or thin!) girls that are funny, talkative, intelligent, a little cheeky and just a little bold(but cautious) have attracted me way more in an old sweater just woken up with hair wild and everything, than some dressed up barbie who has to remake her makeup every half an hour.. ..and sometimes it just takes some time for everything to fit in ones life, so..take comfort that there is a special guy out there for you who is just going through the same difficult period like you...you will meet, that how it's going to be, so you can take some time to prepare yourself with wit, charme and a healthy and attractive appearance until then*^.^*
2016-05-24 03:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , you need more self-confidence. Once u have confidence in your self, you'll take more pride in your appearance.(Which i already know is beautiful!) Instead of tanning ina salon- try self tanning like bronzers 4 your face and a lotion that has a tanner in it. If u want bigger bobs.. well cant help ya much there but try getting a really good-fitting bra! Tightening the straps a little helps 2. Oh and heres a cool 1 : If time and money allows, go to a salon and have them teach u a simple makeup routine.. Yea i know it sounds wack but they can show the best makeup for your skin type, eyes lips, and all that! Or browse a Seventeen mag. They usually have really cool hair and makeup tips!
Much love!
2007-01-14 13:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by caroline c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty comes with in
try working on your self
Make a list of your good points
What kind of talents do you have?Everyone has some talents or hidden talents they haven't discovered yet.
Work on your talents.Trying this to can bring great happiness and confidence.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Learn to accept what you have and make the most of what you got.
2007-01-14 13:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"But by the grace of God I am what I am"
Corinthians 15:10
You really need to realize that people aren't as judgmental about YOU as you think they are. That is, generally most people aren't staring at you picking out your flaws like you do to yourself in the mirror. We all do it...we notice things like our nose is maybe slightly crooked or one ear is a millimeter higher than the other....chances are people that see you every day don't even notice that stuff. You just have to accept that you are what you are...and you should be proud of that.
2007-01-14 13:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Robot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt focus on some much as the outside apperance you should work inside-out get your confidence up you are pretty guys like a girl with confidence.
2007-01-14 13:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Todzilla. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend who doesn't care about your physical aspects.
2007-01-17 19:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by oofagook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to read this article http://www.healthadel.com/articles/9/1/Depression-Treatments/Page1.html i found will be useful also has info on different treatments.
2007-01-16 10:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tom l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.teenmag.com/help/qa/articles/0,,639396_656987,00.html
2007-01-14 14:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋