Because i am doing bad in school because my mom had a boyfriend that i hate. One out of 15 of her boyfriends chocked me ,and one stoll money from me.So everytime i come home from school i tell my mom that i don't have homework but i do.I tell her that because so i can go my grandma's house.i am afraid to tell my mom that i have bad grades in school because she gets really angry and she beats me and my stuff gets taken away. But if i tell my grandma she will understand and all my teachers. and my teachers will tell my mom. I have always done well in school but in 7th grade i barley made honor roll.Then my mom said if i make honor roll i can get speakers for my ipod.Should i tell my grandma or just fail and get kicked out of the honors class? I love honors. There is a boy i like in there and if i leave i'm going on the other side of the school and never see him again.
2007-01-14 12:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by evanskadijah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand that you have some noteworthy concerns regarding your mother's boyfriends however I believe your greatest concern should be with your school work. Do not allow what your mother is doing in her personal life to get you off focus. While I understand that she may not be choosing the best possible mates you are still judging.
Now, your school work is the most important thing right now. You should refocus on making the best grades you can make, and not concerned about a certain boy that you like. Boys, will always be around--so long that they grow up to be men. You have the priviledge, and talent to be in honors classes do your best---live up to the full potential that you have inside of you. Just because you like someone does not mean that you have to give up your dreams, and not utilize your God given talents.
Do not use other people's choices (your mother's boyfriend) as an excuse to not be all you can be. If your mother's boyfriends are mistreating you without your mother's knowledge then you should speak with your mother about it without passing judgement. And if your mother is aware of the physical abuse then you should inform your grandmother. Your safety and well being is more important than protecting any adult that you love.
2007-01-14 14:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask if you can go to your grandma's to do your homework and studying over there? That way, you get to be at your grandma's, you get good grades, you get to stay in honors, you get to see the guy you like.... hmmm... sounds good to me.
2007-01-14 12:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does getting a pink razr and an ipod nano have to do with getting bad grades?
2007-01-14 14:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by ericaofgordon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you position in iTunes on your pc, then create a playlist of the songs you want on your IPod. once you plug it in, the computer will right now away create a playlist out of your songs, yet you are able to replace that by technique of utilising the "YourNameHere"'s Ipod button on the left collumn and choosing which playlist you want on your iPod. Unfortunatly, i cant answer the second one element of your question because i do not recognize a thanks to move the songs
2016-11-23 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mom that you dont have any homework take your homework to your grandmas and do it there and I would tell your grandma everything but tell her not to tell anyone she will understand
2007-01-14 13:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jorge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd take your hw stuff over to your grandma's house; then you could work out your problems with her, and get your hw done at the same time, and stay in honors.
2007-01-14 12:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by kittyluvr0223 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not someone who feels "I need a woman to complete me ". I am a independent working man who is fed up with all the double standards, lies, games, mood swings, insecurity, possessiveness, and all the hassle comes with it.
Sometimes I think all that is not worth all the trouble,it just brings a lot of stress!!
2007-01-14 13:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by isbros 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to see a counsellor or a social worker and fast.
2007-01-14 12:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really sucks seems you should talk to someone around you though
2007-01-14 12:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by night_shift101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋