im a junior in high school, and i treat the people closest to me the worst. i loveem to death but i show it the wrong way. im mean to my good friends, nice cousins, and even my mother. i hate when i act like that. plz any reason y i act like this would be awesome. i dont want to lose everyone i love.
2007-01-14 12:43:47 · 20 answers · asked by Jake W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're aware of what you do - so stop it! Maybe you're scared of letting people get close to you, but it sounds like you want to change so you're headed in the right direction.
2007-01-14 12:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You hurt the ones you love the most." That's a saying I've heard for years and it is true. You hurt the people closest to you because you know it's harder to push them away, as opposed to the people you barely know. Think about it. You can treat your mom like garbage, but is she going to give up on you and leave? No. Same with your closest friends and cousins. I'm guessing that you're upset with something or somebody and that's why you're being mean. You need to figure out what that is before you can fix this problem. Good for you for recognizing that it's wrong, but now you need to sit and think about what's really bothering you. In the meantime, work on making a conscience effort to be nice. Think before you speak and speak before you act.
2007-01-14 20:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by azjen77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you act like this because you love so much and since your young you dont no how to show it in a way to make them feel loved. I advise you to cut it out because thats the quickest way to lose a best friend.
2007-01-14 20:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by L.Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then boy you better grow up!!! being mean could hurt and i mean REALLY HURTING to your love ones and someday...if you got worst...you will and you will lose them...so, first try to be honest and sensitive to THEIR FEELINGS.being showy to your emotions and love does NOT mean your a GAY already.its being TRUE...though mothers understand us, really, understand us coz we are their children..but they have a heart that got hurt also.always PUT THAT IN MIND. true friends can also understand but sometimes if they got more than enough and they thought that they don't deserve the way you treated them, then you better hold yourself coz they will someday leave you.life is tooooooooooooo short my friend, love while you can still love and start living the REAL LIFE God has given you the opportunity
2007-01-14 21:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by ms.curious_insex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not alone. That is because they will accept you no matter what. And because you realize how you are, that is the first step in changing your behaviour. I'm not a counselor but I would recommend you sitting yourself down in front of your school counselor and tell them what you have told us. Then see what they say. I wish you luck!
2007-01-14 20:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by kewte_kewpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same way and I realized it's because I'm most comfortable around these people so I'm more likely to take out my frustrations on them. And the people that aren't nicest to you, subconsciounsly(?) you want them to be nicer to you, therefore you are nicer to them. That's my personal experience anyways.
2007-01-14 20:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are aware of this, think before u act. be nice. treat people like they treat u. geeze
2007-01-14 20:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a wierd sense of showing affection. I would suggest talking to a psychologist.
2007-01-14 20:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably love them soooo much that you do'nt want to show your emotions because you would get embaressed if you did. Just remind your friends that you do like them and remind your parents you love them even though you don't show it. Trust me, I'm in 5th grade.
2007-01-14 20:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Elyssa Jo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try talking to them..tell them that you dont mean to be mean and you are really sorry!! if that doesnt work try consuling...im ot saying you need it but you might! I had the same problem about 3 years ago and consuling helped me alot.
2007-01-14 20:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Falling in Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋