Its not a problem i just wanted to know why people act so wierd around me?
for example....i can walk into a particular area and some people might start talkin about me. How do i know? they look and say "look at him.....blah blah blah" I am a loner for the most part but whenever i'm with peers they may treat me as if i'm stupid or no t take me seriously. When i'm in public people give me funny looks, i'm not one to follow the crowd, i do my own thing, i have my own style of dressing, it still fits within the norm.
Someone answer i've been wanting to kno for a while
2007-01-14 12:33:05 · 8 answers · asked by o.O 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be true to yourself and never fear what anyone else thinks or says. You are who you are and if people don't like it, then it's their problem. If you're not hurting anyone, then they're the ones with the issues. More power to you.......think of it this way, at least you get ATTENTION!!! They can't figure you out because they find you so mysterious and intriguing........cool! Just use your humor to shake it off. Don't stoop down to their level, don't let it bother you. Your self-confidence and self-control will eventually win some admirers. If you hear or see them snicker, just turn and smile and keep walking.......
2007-01-14 12:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The same thing used to happen to me when I was a teenager. But I'm an adult now and now I know to tell you to please keep doing your own thing. Although it will take some time, you will find that being your own person and doing your own thing is far more important than what people think.
This is a time in your life when it is extremely important for you to fit in. But every single person your age is going through the same thing. Every person in your age group is either trying to fit in or trying to stay in.
The ability to be yourself in spite of all this says something about you.
I wish you luck.
2007-01-14 12:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever noticed how those people that are talking about you all sorta look the same??? You know, they're one of the crowd...? So mayber they're just jealous of you because you are strong enough to be your own person. Deep down inside, I'm certain they wish they were strong enough to be their own person instead of being what society says they should be....
So you just keep on keepin' on. Be your own person. Ignore what it is they have to say about you.... And know that even if sometimes it's hard to ignore, whatever doesn't kill you will definitely make you a stronger person!
Congratulations to you for being YOU!
2007-01-14 12:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way I dress comfortable and I do not follow anyones lead. Others talk about me but I noticed the ones that talk try to copy and be like me so just continue to be who you are because deep down they are wishing they were like you.
2007-01-14 12:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are paranoid about people not liking you. Be yourself and stop thinking people are talking about you or that they think you are stupid. Talk to a counselor, priest,school nurse or a teacher. Have a little self-esteem. I`m sure you are not a bad person but you have to prove this to yourself. WORK ON IT. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-14 12:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are weird that's what. Everybody gotta mind their damn bussiness and not care about nobody else. U do ur own thing and be ur own person! Unique! Dnt change for nobody else =)
2007-01-14 12:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause people are weird
2007-01-14 12:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because your different and they can't Handel that
2007-01-14 12:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by emmoly94 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋