I have been seeing my man for about 6 years now & when we 1st got 2gether it was GR8 and now he just acts so different & is so rude 2 me all the time! wheneva we have disagreements or woteva he puts words into my mouth & tells me im a ***** and wheneva i want him to compliment me more (which he NEVA EVA does anymore!) he starts an argument with me saying oh yea thats right, its all about you!!!! i get really upset and am beginning to get depressed because i neva have any1 telling me im beautiful and loved etc!!!!!!???????!!!!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO....?????? there's absolutely NO talking to him because he wouldnt take that!
2007-01-14 12:25:59 · 20 answers · asked by manda06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you stay with someone who tells you that you're a *****? Dump the jerk and look for someone else. It's better to be alone than with someone who's abusive.
2007-01-14 12:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for?
LEAVE HIM!
He doesn't know how to treat a lady right and he obviously has some problems going on in his life. You DO NOT deserve to be called names like that and you don't deserve to be yelled at like that.
Find a new boyfriend who is actually ready for a real relationship or just hang out with friends-whatever you do, stay away from this guy you're dating. He's trouble and isn't treating you well.
Good luck!!
2007-01-14 20:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up... i know 6 years may seem alot but imagine being with him a lifetime. do urself a favor and find someone else that actually cares for you cause of what i can conclude from what you said, he is gonna continue makin u feel depressed. i assure u, there must be one soul out there that is gonna make u happy for the rest of ur life.
2007-01-14 20:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by jbljackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys really dont like much talking about "ourselves" most of the time...they like a discussion,a debate, a "real talk"....why don't you try to know what's on his mind...ask him in a nice manner in a sweet way but not too much sweetness that might also be irritable...or ask him,why he has changed? yes he might not want or like the "talking" but at least give him the benefit of the doubt and be really serious with it like you really mean it....guys like that have something hidden you know...they have a secret that they don't want us to know that's why they lock it. explain to him on what's the advantage of an open relationship,in knowing each other's thought and be sensitive also...we girls really NEED complements coz it makes us feel we are still needed and loved that we still beautiful in his eyes,that we are still the apple in his eyes...try to explain it to him heartily and when you do these maybe he would listen also....
2007-01-14 20:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by ms.curious_insex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel and i know a lot of people are going to tell you to break up with him. i also know its easier said than done when you love someone and have been with them for that long. try talking to him and tell him how you feel. see if that helps. maybe you do have to break up with him maybe he will realize what he had and the old spark will come back again. i am going through some of these same things right now so i can relate to how you feel. email me maybe we can help each other out. desiree_t_cady@yahoo.com
2007-01-14 20:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love his, thats very clear. But you don't have to take that from him. You're right, he should be telling you your beautiful and stuff like that. And if he isn't satisying you any more and not making you feel good about yourself, then he may not be the one for you.
If not that, then he might be upset with you about something
2007-01-14 20:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him what it is about me that has caused your change in attitude. Tell him that if there is something that you are doing or saying that has caused this verbal abuse that you would like to try to make it better. If he tells you things about yourself that are hard to hear, try not to be defensive and make excuses. Just listen up and tell him that you will work harder at not annoying him.
This is called humility and it usually works.
2007-01-14 20:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Freedom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Time to say....."It was a good time while it lasted"....and salvage what good memories you have, before there aren't any left....and leave right this minute.
This relationship has run its course, and it will just keep getting worse from here. Sorry to say that, as it's not normally my advice, but I see nothing left to save, but the memories....
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-14 20:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame him. Any man would go crazy being with a woman that writes so intelligibly. It's a sign of how your mind works, which isn't normal.
2007-01-14 20:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by GG Alan Alda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to dump him but u might think theres no other man out there but there is so just dump him and move on there might be a man out there for u and the man your with doesent sound like someone u should be with so move on
2007-01-14 20:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by iluvashleytisdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋