2007-01-14 12:19:58 · 13 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why is due to insecure? Some example??
What you think?
2007-01-14 15:30:54 · update #1
Some women are possessive yes, and so are some men. Sometimes it's due to insecurity and other times to selfishness.
2007-01-14 12:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being possessive comes from alot of things. I grew up surviving child abuse and being treated as the black sheep of my family. I married someone who also abused me physically, mentally and emotionally. I lived my whole life with abuse of some kind up until about 15 years ago. I got therapy and found people that could help me put my life in order the way I wanted. I had to decide for myself how I was going to let someone treat me and what I wanted in my life and what I didn't want. I have finally met a man that treats me like an equal and respects who I am. All I want to do now is live with him the rest of my life and be happy. I feel that I am possessive because of my past and what I want for my future. I just want what I feel I deserve. I feel that I deserve nothing less then being treated as I treat him. I just don't want anything or anyone to interfere in my future with this man that I love more then life itself and that is the main reason that I am possessive.
2007-01-14 13:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by LM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only wives are possessive men too, we're all humans.
possessive relating to relationships do points to being insecure of losing the partner to someone else? or even losing oneself to a 3rd party?
one of the sure sign is to keep the partner in full sight and full time too.
2007-01-14 15:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes women who are possessive are insecure, but i think sometimes it's because the husband has made others his priority, while he neglects u and your wants and needs. think some husbands make their wives insecure, by paying too much attention to others, be it other woman, friends, families, kids from a previous marriage, and she just feels neglected, and unloved.
2007-01-14 12:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wives who are insecure are possessive.
That leaves 97% of us who aren't insecure so we're not possessive.
2007-01-14 12:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people in general are possessive. I don't think it stops with just women, men can be like this too.
2007-01-14 12:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I am a very possessive wife due to insecurity!! I am always afraid that my hubby will find a better looking, slimmer, absolutely drop dead gorgeous woman w/ bigger "ones". We were both married before. We've cheated on our spouses w/ each other!!! I'm afraid that it's going to happen w/ me when I'm married to him. So, the answer is....YES!!
2007-01-14 12:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of the time when women act like this, there is a reason behind it, making her feel insecure, or untrusting. It's not normal to be that way from the start, unless you are pushing your boundaries...
2007-01-14 12:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, when I've met a possessive wife, it has always been because she doesn't trust her husband, is insecure, or is a cheater herself.
2007-01-14 12:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No , it's because men can't keep their dingaling in their pants and there are little heifers that keep throwing themselves.
2007-01-14 13:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋