Over this summer, I watched that show on dateline...bout being gay, if it was through genes. Well before I worried bout it I was loving this one guy and very girlie. Well eversince I got myself depressed I feel like doing nothing...I worry all the time about it. I am not attracted to women an anyway. So..how do I put it all behind me..and get out of this depressins?
2007-01-14 12:16:02 · 13 answers · asked by Becca C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Continue to speak the truth to yourself. You're not attracted to women. It's not genetic, it's a deception that comes due to certian choices throughout your life. You are born straight, but your mind can get convinced of things that aren't true. Homosexuality is one of those things.
The only way out of depression that will truly last is to find life in Jesus. He is our eternal hope and joy.
2007-01-14 12:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's called finding out more about yourself. You might not be totally gay, but at least a small part of you is. As much as you don't wnat any gayness in you, it seems to be there alright.
I was a bit alarmed by my gayness when I found out (I was aware of the same sex since 10, but didn't know for sure I was gay till about.... 13, I think). However, I've learnt that it's a part of me, and not too bad a part of me, might I add!
You can get very girlie lesbians BTW!
2007-01-14 12:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're attracted to men, and not women, then you're not a lesbian. but your question is not worded very clearly. I'm not sure what you're saying " I was loving this one guy and very girlie" and that you're depressed and worry about it all the time. what does that mean? you say you're not attracted to women, so, what exactly is your point?
2007-01-14 12:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay doesn't stop you from being girlie, jeez. Nor does it stop you from loving or accepting yourself. You also don't "get yourself depressed." Just get over yourself, your the worst enemy you can have at this point. Realize your worthy of love and not gay, just sad and pathetic and wanting to create drama in your life.
2007-01-14 13:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't be a lesbian, very simple. Girlyness has nothing to do with being lesbian. Look at Ellen DeGeneres and Portia Di Rossi. Ellen's kinda butch and Portia's an ooh-la-la girly-girl
Wait awhile, another guy will come along to rock your world. A few years down the line you'll be married and pregnant and chuckling over this rough patch in your life.
2007-01-14 12:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by mabster60 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Listen it sounds like you refuse to accept yourself. You enjoy the intimacy, the closeness. You aren't as open to yourself as you should be. You hunger for the Ecstasy-you enjoy the self-indulgence and the Post-Or gas....U know.
Love, Who U R-1st!
Let self love, be your deepest and most profound love!
Let's get real--itz Hot !
Ok, I'll bite__You Bin Ah Bad_Gurl !!!
Shake it off--Get On Wit-Gett'n It On !!!
L.I.F.E. Is to short to get all D-PRESS'D about.
I promise tomorrow will present more/other issues.
Taste and enjoy life-safely,carefully, temperately,and be both gratified and satiated.
Xoxoxo:)
2007-01-14 12:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by FunkyMcNasty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never had any feelinsg for a fellow female I woudln't get yourself depressed over something that you most likely are not.
But there are worse things to worry about. I say dont think about it too much, just continue to enjoy that one guy you liked.
2007-01-14 12:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by james_dean_li 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What exactly does "very girlie" mean? And if you don't like girls than why would you be depressed about being lesbian?
2007-01-14 12:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't attracted to women, then what's the problem? Your question doesn't make sense.
If you are attracted to women, then come to terms with your feelings.
2007-01-14 12:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find what;s causing the depression and work on that issue/issues.
2007-01-14 20:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋