2007-01-14 12:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Doesn't support you how--emotionally or financially? If it's financially, then you could hint that he give you more since you need more means to do whatever it is you need, and if it's emotional then you should suggest you both seek help.
2007-01-14 12:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. My husband doesnt always understand what support i need or how he can help. maybe thats what hes having trouble with understanding how to help. Even though you have try telling him try again. Try writing him a note. He may also fell that you don't support him enough. the more i help my husband the more he helps me. When you really really need him he will be there.
2007-01-14 20:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by His submissive wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is sorta the same. i mean i do everything in the house a pregnant woman should NOT be doing. i dont say anything to him b/c i dont want to bother him and i dont want him to think im lazy or whatever. i also dont think he realizes. its also the little things like the trash and hauling it outside,leaving his clothes all over the place when the hamper is right there( when its a pain in the rear to bend over) or dishes laying around or needing room to sit , ect... i never get a how are you feeling or never feels the baby and well, nothing. but its just the way he is and im not going to argue with him about it. i mean yeah.. i wish he was more supportive to me and his unborn child, but some men dont understand. they dont understand AT ALL what hell its like to be pregnant and they never will. so... i let it be. believe me, your husband just doesnt care. i envy those pregant woman out there who get everything done for them, must be heaven. oh, and im reading all your answers, see... many many men are like that. they dont care. im guessing its just normal then.
2007-01-14 20:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by jessnclh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah men! my bf's doing the exact same, buggerin off all the time, sayn it cuz he cnt stand being around me most of the time, n when i say i need support he says what 4? she's not evn born yet!! cheaky begger! i've just given up now, i got 2 my family 4 support n leave him 2 it. every1's telln me he'll come round eventually, n dispite wot he says hes scared abt being a dad...hence he's being a ****! u culd try writing it dwn in a letter 2 him? that way he cnt interupt u when u say 2 him whats wrong. worth a try?
2007-01-14 20:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well supports you enough in what, you're kind of vague. I don't know how many times you have told him, but if it's real often and he still doesn't listen, I would say he just doesn't care and It's time to move on. Life is too short to waste on someone who doesn't listen to you. Chalk it up to a life experience and move on to your next adventure.
2007-01-14 20:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by luluhinalbwi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a better job. Or maybe you should budget your money better. If your talking emotional support, jeez, maybe tell him he needs to be more respectful of your feelings? I don't know. As women we all know how hard it is to change a man!
2007-01-14 20:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not listen or support you say me and my baby are leaving and if he just lets you go out the door he's not a real men.or get child support in the near future.
2007-01-14 20:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by flower7125520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about financial or emotional support?
2007-01-14 21:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Financially or emotionally? Make sure you are direct with him so he understands what you need done differently.
2007-01-14 20:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by desertblue62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to really tellhim how you feel about it.
2007-01-14 20:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Due 3/3/10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋