what can i say to my friend when she knowingly lets her son and daughter steal bcuz they watch her fiance do it? she supposedly yells at them and puts them on groundation in their rooms, but like 4 hours later its like theres nothing wrong. (a few of her friends) we have noticed this and have had the kids tell us what they have done. I dont feel this is right and its hard for me to talk to her right now knowing that she is ok with this. I dont make that much myself but it just bothers me bcuz she is like my sister. I have problems talking to her about this, and lately it makes us uncomfortable to go over there to hang out. if theres any ideas please msg me back, i greatly appreciate all help.
2007-01-14 11:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by Witchy Poo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing, but I'd drop her as a friend. Her children steal and her fiancee steals...odds are she does too. Her (and their) moral compass is completely nonexistent. If you don't want to end up being stolen from, I'd suggest cutting her out of your life. Eventually you will be directly effected if you keep her in your life.
2007-01-14 11:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i wouldnt say ANYTHING to her about it and i would call CPS...this is a crime do you realize what kind of adults these kids will be if there is no intervention now? there was a story on the news around christmas where a mother was arrested in walmart for teaching her kids aged 2-7 how to steal...call CPS if not for your own satisfaction for the sake of the kids...
2007-01-14 19:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe the problam is that we worry about what other people are doing i for instance am learning not to care about anyone but myself how ever i have spent the last two years doing my best to be a good influenece to the party in question not only is it wrong it is disgusting people who teach this should not be around children and if certain people are to dumb to agree they can go to you no where
2007-01-14 19:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by pats dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy that in the future her kids will become criminals and probably end up in jail then she is stupid but maybe her childhood was similar. If she loves her kids she should want whats best for them.
2007-01-14 19:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by bri d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if you find out about one more incident of theft, you will be informing the police of what you know. I'm willing to bet she does not want her house searched for stolen goods.
2007-01-14 19:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't snitch.
I don't recommend it.
You could just remind her everyday how much a lowlife degenerate, disgusting, embarassing, dispicable scumbag she is. (Oh yeah and her kid too).
Maybe if do long enough, she'll feel bad and change her ways.
2007-01-14 19:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i would like to say that how do you know that she knowingly knows it? and why would you think she condones it?
2007-01-15 11:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL THE COPS AND TURN THEM ALL IN AND END IT ALL TOGETHER!
2007-01-14 19:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋