Should i borrow my gf money?

Question

I said at beginning when she signed up for 2000 computer busines I may lend her 200 if needs help. However there was a 30 day money back gurantee and I said to drop to 300 dollar level then she got mad, 10 days before deadline. Then tryed 2 days before and of course 2 late. Now she asks for 750 and I suggest 200-300, what do you think. Then if I don't help she states I am unsupportive and gets upset. i have been slapped for not leaving her a lone when she did not want to talk, Together now over 1 yr

She did say 200 would help? Want you think

Answer 1

She is only with you for the money and even if you give her the money, as soon as she finished the classes she would dump you!! Dump her first!!

Answer 2

QUOTE: "i have been slapped for not leaving her a lone when she did not want to talk"

Sounds like the biggest issue here is that you are in an abusive, manipulative relationship and need to get out...you don't sound unsupportive at all. You may care about your girlfriend but it is NEVER okay to slap your partner, male or female. Then there is the fact that you graciously offered to help and suggested ways in which this venture could be more successful - or at least not such a loss - and are given grief over THAT. I would get out before things get worse...there is no greater con in life and love than those three little words from someone who clearly doesn't mean them ("I love you"). She sounds selfish and while you may love her, she has not only issues but isn't very good to you. I would break up and find someone who can treat you like you deserve and be a TRUE partner...sorry if this sounds harsh, but it's my honest view. Wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

Whatever money you give her considered it lost. Chicks are abusive girlfriend/boyfriend. Approximately 99.9% of the time you do not get your money back. This is the best way to lose a friend or a significant other.

Does she has any family members? She should go to them first. You are not married to her, so you should be her very last, last resource. If you want to give her whatever amount of $$$ (non-returnable) that is on you. Watch out for the gold-diggers because they start slow first.

Answer 4

A person does not "borrow her the money"....They can "loan" her money.
If you can afford to 'loan' her what ever money she needs just do it. If you cannot afford to lose the money (in case she cant pay you back) then she is better off going elsewhere for a loan.
She might be better off tryng to get a 'loan' from a bank and keep you out of it. A loan from you could damage the relationship seriously.

Answer 5

Will she pay you decrease back--- like, does she have a pastime? Why cant her father and mom advance her the money? is this borrowing putting you in a complicated concern? you want to respond to those style of questions. all the perfect.

Answer 6

Just checked out your profile and u'd think after having asked this question soooo many times you would have your answer by now? What is the answer you're looking for?

Answer 7

think u should split up with her, she wants your money, wants u to be supportive, but slaps u when u enter her space, not wanting to give even her time to u. get out of it, before u go broke. don't lend her money, it is not your problem, and don't make it your problem.

Answer 8

sounds like she in to u for ur money but then again dont judge the book by its cover ,maybe u two is just simply misunderstanding each other. if i was u i would do my little own investagtion to prove to my self if he/she is with me for me or my money dont do something u are gonna regret.

Answer 9

Never mix business with relationships. It is a surefire recipe for disaster.

Answer 10

tell her to get a job & pay for it herself!