Oh My God! I haven't done anything!?

Question

I'm a senior in a new high school. I'm tan, have green eyes and I have long healthy trimmed naturally black hair. Everyone, well mostly the girls keep on teasing me! About my hair, and shout "DEAD ENDS!" to me, when I don't even any. I don't even do anything to anyone. I'm a very nice kind person. They always say that my hair is ugly and so are my looks.

My G.P.A. is a 4.0 and they always say I cheat. I NEVER cheat! I haven't done anything to these girls.
Why are they doing this to me? What should I do?

Answer 1

This is called bullying and harrassment. Are your parents or teachers aware this is happening? You need to go to the principal and file a complaint. It is the school's responsibility to protect you.

Answer 2

If you have the "bucks", go and get a "makeover". For heaven's sake, your hiding ALL your attributes under some lone black,broken ends, hair. Go to a men's shop and get some advice, you may even be surprised at how great you will look. Then go to a men's clothing store and get some more advice on how to dress and put yourself together. Clothes make the man, so they say and first impressions last. So get out there and change yours, and watch all the girls start chasing after you and the guys will be really set-back! By the way, I believe you , that you have a 4.0 GPA - I was a honour student myself, so get used to being teased, its only jealousy, stop the "crap", and offer to help the less intelligent students, pick one that is really popular and see how your status sores at school! Good Luck.. ps some of these shops have "virtual makeovers" and you can see before you make a change.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You're being bullied. I was bullied too and there really isn't much you can do about it. Anything you say can and will be used against you. If you try to be friends, they will make fun of you, if you ignore them, they will make fun of you and if you become hostile or report them, they will beat you up.

I'm an adult and it still happens at the work place. I don't understand people who do it and I've never figured out what to do to defend myself either.

I've asked my persecutors why they tease me so much and they say because I'm arrogant but I know I'm not..I do my best to help anyone who needs it and don't feel I'm doing as well as I should be doing. If your like me you make good grades, look good and still feel like other people are smarter, braver, prettier, etc than you are. People are jealous but knowing why they do it doesn't help me figure out what to do about it. I'm quiet and don't talk too much any more...I used to chat people up about the weather and stuff around the coffee pot but quit doing that years ago. I was accused of cheating and my principals and head teachers would watch me like a hawk. Everyone is so sure I'm up to no good but I haven't done anything to anyone either. I'm friendly, efficient, quick, self motivator and parents and children love me. (I'm a teacher)

The only people who don't love me are the other teachers. I figured out a long time ago that the kids would shout my name when I walked in a room (out of affection) and I made them stop that. I've got the kids to quit hugging me and I've quit giving a lot of concerts with the kids. (People complained that it took the kids away from their real education...I teach music.) They still accuse me of things I never did and I'm still under survellance all the time. People actually think I'm molesting children!!! It isn't true and they can watch me all they want but I'm absolutely being bullied and it won't stop. I've been working this job for 5 years and it still continues. I could switch jobs but there is no guarantee it wouldn't be the same somewhere else. The trend seems to follow me as I'm different...not gay, not of any religious persuasion, not of any hated race (I'm white) and after all these years, it persists. I can't think of a thing I do any different than anyone else and wonder why I'm always picked out of a crowd. You're the same, aren't you?

I'm so sorry but I don't know the solution to it either. Everyone has great advice but it isn't happening to them and probably never has so they don't really know the "dead ends" we face...humor doesn't change it. Buying donuts for the staff doesn't do it, ignoring them doesn't do it, reporting them adds fuel to the fire. All I do is keep my feelings to myself, do my job and hope for the best. I have a few friends and I focus on those people. Other than that, all I can do is wish you luck.

I really feel your pain!!! I've been there. Bullying is a real problem in American Schools and it isn't just the kids who suffer...its our entire society.

Answer 5

well if they are white they are probably jelouse of you being tan u have it for free and these girls put money into it and most of the time they turn out orange.. i wish i was a little tanner.. im freakin pale lol.. also i think black hair is very pretty on darker complections.. i dyed mine black but being that im white it didnt look to good lol .. my bad.. .. the bottom line is that they are jelouse of you your a new girl with beautifull hair and your a threat to them because they know guys are always interested in the new girl.. there really isnt anything you can do but ask them what there problem is but i would just enjoy the rest of you last year of school and dont worry about these girls when it comes to the grade .. say.. yea exactly who in this class would i wanna cheat from?... what are they gonna say?... good luck i hope i helped!

Answer 6

There's nothing wrong with you so don't feel bad. It's not a wonder that mostly the girls tease you. They're jealous. Some people are just ignorant, and make people who have no problems seem like they do. Honestly, I think they wish they had what you have;beauty and good grades =].

Answer 7

They're just mean hos. You have what, 5 1/2 months left and then you're rid of them forever, right? Just ignore them and go about your business.

Or, you could suggest they might spend their time in more constructive ways, like getting that crooked eyebrow waxed right the next time, or putting in some gym time to help firm up those sagging butt cheeks before it becomes a serious problem. The high road is more proper, but sometimes the low road is more satisfying, lol!

Answer 8

girl dont worry about these people they are obviously jealous in some sort of way.i really hope they are not seniors also..if so they should really be more mature then they are acting.just do you and dont worry about what other people say.in life things like this happen and you just got to brush off your shoulders and go on.im very sorry they do this to you because i to was picked on in school but that was way back in elementary school...please dont in any way try to change yourself for these people...they are the ones with the problems

Answer 9

They are jealous of you dear, and bc you are nice and maybe shy, they tease you. If you were extroverted or a ***** then they'd be scared of you and be your friend.

I'm sorry hon; people suck until they grow out of crap like this. And some never do.

Just act really snotty like it doesn't bother you. And make friends with the boys who are friends with these girls. If you do and they stick by you, eventually the girls will back off.

Answer 10

there are always haters in this world and believe it or not no matter where you are PEOPLE judge. The reson why they are doing this to you is because they don't want to be the one being picked on first so they chose you to torture. i believe that everyone has some good and bad things about themselves cuz no ones perfect.