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Ok well, theres this one girl, we both admitted to being into the other so I thought ok heres a future girlfriend. But we decided to take it pretty slow at first to see what happens. But i recently found out shes going after someone else. And doesnt like me but hasnt tld me, I know she is into him because I found an email from the kid and they said they were eventually going to hook up and she said "screw john, ill let him go" in it (im john by the way). But shes one of the onl girls i ever felt this way about, what should i do?

2007-01-14 10:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by John G 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

6 answers

In case you dont know this already, youre being dumped on big time. So run and dont look back. You dont stand a chance with this girl, so instead of getting hurt further, channel your energy into finding someone who is interested in you. Learn from this and move on to bigger and better things. Sorry, and good luck

2007-01-14 11:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0 0

Ouch!

Dude, we all have crushes. At some point, you'll look back on this and laugh.

This girl is confused and fussy- not the greatest traits to have in a girlfriend. You'll be doing yourself the greatest favour ever by thinking "Phew, close one. Someone else can get lumbered with the minx".

I'm sure you're a nice guy. Plenty more fish in the sea. Stop considering her a future girlfriend and start thinking of her as an ex-close shave.

I know it must hurt (always bruises the ego). But we all go through stuff like this.

Next time you see her, take her to one side and just tell her what you've told us. Be cool, be hip and be totally straight with her. "I thought we had something going, but as you have a thing for someone else, I can't be bothered with it. Lets just be friends, yeah? It wasn't working out anyway."

Leave with your dignity and you'll regret nothing! You were probably too cool for her anyway. If she's got a bad personality, that guy will dump her anyway.

Get yourself a new girl under better circumstances. Good karma will always find you a hot chick :-)

2007-01-14 19:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0 0

If she can so easily say "screw you", then don't give her the chance. You'll find another person that won't say "screw you". She must not like you enough to continue to take it slow. Go on without her and she'll realize what she is really missing. Best wishes!

2007-01-14 19:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0 0

Forget about her, she's not your girlfriend.
You said your "future girlfriend" sorry but I haven't heard that one before...Next time you like a girl, let her know, so she doesn't slip away!

2007-01-14 19:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1 1

If she said "screw u" she probably dont like u. she probably wants u to think that she likes u. she wants to use u for something. use u...

2007-01-14 19:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by - 3 · 0 0

you said you guys decided to take it slow and see what happens.
Well, this is what happened, she moved on.
Forget about her she sounds easy.

2007-01-14 18:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0 0

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