My friends, and theres about 5 of them, aren't my friend anymore because on this one site I read there diary but i only read 3 of the peoples diarys but one of the ones I didn't read thinks I did because someone said I did when I didn't. All so, non of them trust me and they think im a lier when I've never loied to three of them before but there the ones calling me liers. Any Advice?
2007-01-14 10:51:53 · 20 answers · asked by Kerry S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to them and tell them the truth
2007-01-14 10:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, even if you didn't do anything wrong. If it's one of those diary sites where you can read anyone's diary, then I don't think you did anything wrong. If you had to put in their password or something, then you are at fault. Just let them know you're sorry. You can't really do anything but apologize. Arguing over who is right or wrong will just make things worse. Live and learn. If they don't come back around, as much as it may hurt, just move on and learn from the experience. It's all you can do.
2007-01-14 10:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by hilton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you got yourself in a pickle didn't you? The only thing I can say that you can do, is call the one that said you read her diary but you didn't, and tell her that You will Read it now if she wants. Then she can continue on spreading that vicious lie, and this time it will be true. Don't sweat over this, move on, these people were never your friends in the first place or they wouldn't have left their "diaries" out where anyone could read them. I think they did it on purpose. Move on, and get some new friends and start afresh!
2007-01-14 10:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont read other peoples diaries. and the reason they dont trust you is because you invaded thier privacy and you werent acting like a friend. your curiosity got the best of you and you didnt act like a friend. and the only thing you can do is apologize and let them come around im sorry but you asked for it and you got it.
2007-01-14 10:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't hold them back they all love ya and i no people called me a lier too but think if u still want to be there friend then ask then if they could just forget about it and say can we start over
2007-01-14 10:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by 43v MiZZiN Kt13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they didnt want their diaries to be read why did they post them on the site? i think you should first of all give them your most sincere thought out apology. if they dont forgive you right away then give them some time to think. they are more likely to forgive you if they had time to think about what happened.
2007-01-14 10:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by 22 Mercedes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the diaries are online, and you could access them, so could plenty of other folks. You cannot force people to forgive you. Get on with it, girl. You can can apologize, but do NOT grovel.
2007-01-14 10:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find Some New Friends To Spy On...lol
2007-01-14 10:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if they arent your friends if they dont forgive you...a friend is one who gives,beleives,trusts,and forfives you and they dont seem like the kind...you dont need them,and plus,what kind of idiot puts her diary on the web and than blames you for reading it?im telling you,you dont need them....find some one better who will treat you better and actually be a true friend.
2007-01-14 10:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sk8er Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.... there's a site where people write their diaries, but they get mad if someone reads it? Get new friends and forget those losers.
2007-01-14 10:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a true apology and a sincere attitude asking for their forgiveness. Make sure you explain what you are sorry you without blaming anyone else.
2007-01-14 10:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋