my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and moved out of town, i finaly got over him and we met up to see if we can be friends.Since breaking up he has a new g.f .I went to chat with him and i saw her clothes/xshoes and toiletries around his house and i just felt sick,am i not over him or should i feel this sickened?
2007-01-14 10:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am in a similar situation and I think it's best if you just distance yourself. I do believe that you can be friends with an ex, but it depends on the situation and if you have both moved on. Even though you might not want to get back together with him, it can still hurt seeing him with someone else. Especially as you only broke p a couple of months ago - it's still pretty fresh.
2007-01-14 11:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN HE BROKE UP WITH YOU IT WAS BECAUSE HE ALREADY HAD A NEW LADY FRIEND.
DONT BOTHER TRYING TO RECANDLE WHAT YOU GUYS HAD ONCE, OR EVEN TRY TO BECOME HIS FRIEND ... I MEAN NOT NOW. MAYBE IN THE FUTURE THE BOTH OF YOU CAN MAYBE SIT AND TALK
AND IS VERY NATURAL THAT YOU HAVE THE EMOTIONS OF FEELING SICK OVER THE THINGS YOU SAW ...
YOUR NOT THE FIRST AND WILL NOT BE THE LAST A MAN DOES THIS KIND OF A ACTION TO A WOMAN ... HE IS WHAT WOMAN CALL A PIG.
2007-01-14 19:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its part of getting over him, I know it feels bad when an ex gets a partner before you do, but it will get better with time especially when you meet someone special. But don't rush though, take your time and enjoy the freedom of being single. Best of Luck..
2007-01-14 18:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its difficylt for exes to be mates unless they've been together for ages and have kids or something and are older and maybe if it was mutual. Why be mates with him anyway he dumped you! Move on girl and don't torture yourself anymore.
2007-01-14 18:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that he has moved on then he has. if he already moved another woman in then i dont think there is any hope. but if you think there is a chance then by all means hold on to your man fight for the love you know you two have!
2007-01-14 19:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely not over him and should keep your distance.
He's obviously into that girl big time and you'll end up making a fool of yourself.
Move on.xx
2007-01-14 18:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up - ex-lovers can be friends, but only when both are over their feelings for the other.
2007-01-14 18:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him, keep away from him. It's none of your business who he sees. Move on with your life.
2007-01-14 19:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over him yet. He's moved on by now. You should too.
2007-01-14 19:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by chickidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard seeing someone you have loved moving on. maybe you should leave any more contact with him until you have moved on yourself
2007-01-14 18:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋