Can virgins be 'loose'?

Question

I'm aware this sounds odd,but it's a question that's been making me curious for a while.

I'm married,20,female (obviously) and I was a virgin when I got married (completely unbroken in,just for him. ^_-). He's the only man I've been with sexually... yet he's flat out told me his opinion is I'm slightly loose.

He's -extremely- well endowed,so it's nothing to do with -that-. but I'm curious. Are there exercises that can be used to tighten up those muscles? Are there any reasons why a virgin would be so loose at first?

And another note: He says I was loose,but the 'first time' it was -agonizing-. That doesn't make sense to me,either. Could it be he's simply not very sensitive,too?

=) I'd love some opinions on this. Links to any exercises that might help would be great,too. Thanks. ^^

Answer 1

Well. How do you know he is well endowed if he is the only one you have ever had sex with? That may not be true. That aside, vaginas, just like penises come in many different sizes. Your vagina may just be bigger, nothing wrong with that

Answer 2

Gee, I am not sure what to say about your husband! I just FEEL he might be saying these things for some kind of an "affect" from you! I personally think he is being quite rude, and very unloving. I do hope you keep your chin up and realize this. Your right, it does NOT make sense! Think about it. If he is soooooooooo endowed, and you did it 10 times a day, every which way, I could understand it getting stretch OR you had 3 or more children come out in 3 years-I'd even go for that- But other than those stories-I think your hubby is being insulting! Of course they have exercises, but why do I have this feeling he's still not going to be over joyed? I hate to sound negative, but I think your marriage needs some big time communication! I wish you good wishes..

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Just a theory but maybe this he-man is used to getting his ego stroked over his big member. When he didn't get it he blamed you for being loose.

Anyway, to answer your question, how loose you are has little to do with sexual experience. If he is as big as you say then it sounds like your a match made in heaven. But kegels may help.

Answer 5

Try the link below for a great answer on a similiar question. Its called kegel excercises. Also get a book that shows many positions and try them. Hey try this one tonight, When you are on the bottom, put a firm pillow below your but and mid back. The penetration he will be able to achieve that way will be extreme leaving you both happy!

Answer 6

"looseness" has nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with individual body composition. you can do kegal exercises. the next time you are urinating isolate the muscles that will stop your urine stream. once you know where they are periodically exercise them throughout the day. i do 20 contractions at each red light. you can also purchase weighted balls and barbells for this purpose from any adult store.

Answer 7

Sounds like he is a jerk for telling you something like that. You can do Kegels.......but I doubt it is going to make much difference. I have had 5 kids and my husband has NEVER had the nerve to say I feel loose.

Answer 8

Just contract the muscles in that area. You can do it in the bed or sitting in a chair. No one can tell what you are doing.

Answer 9

HERE'S MY OPINION F-U-C-K- HIM AND GO FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU.