They do the pull out method. she still hasnt gotten pregnant. and shes been doing that for about 8 months. everyone talks about how it's not safe, which I know it's not against stds. but for getting pregnant, but she still hasnt in 8 months. so i'm confused, is it safe or not?
2007-01-14 09:57:38 · 20 answers · asked by fosho 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No it is not safe and your friend sounds like a real idiot and same goes for her boyfriend. It can take months ,even years for a person to get pregnant, it varies. One person could have sex once and get pregnant wher someone could have sex 100 times and not get pregnant.
The main reason teen pregnancy is so high is because of the pull out method, they have it in there heads it prevents pregnancy when the fact of the matter is it is 0% effective against pregnancy...My mom is a GYN and she is always dealing with pregnant teenagers who used the pull out method.
There is a thing called precum that comes out before a guy cums and he can not feel it and it can get you pregnant, I think maybe you need to talk to your friends parents before she ends up a teenage mother, she may hate you for a while but later in life she will thank you.
2007-01-14 10:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pull out method is NOT safe. It's not 100% secure. Your friend should consider taking birth-control pills. It's very safe and she's won't have to use a condom ever again! Visit the near-by planned parent hood clinic and she'll get all the information there. Again, the withdrawl method in NOT safe and even if she's not pregnant yet...one wrong move and it's over!!! If your friend thinks she's preganant, Tell her to take the morning after pill within 48 hours. Hope this helped.
2007-01-14 10:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by A Real Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not safe at all!!! The only way to make sure you don't EVER get pregnant is to abstain from sex! Just because they haven't in 8 months doesn't mean that it won't happen. We conceived our second son using the pull out method. Just because he's not ejaculating inside her doesn't mean anything...and the pre does contain sperm. It's not safe!!!
2007-01-14 10:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend in high school got prenant senior year. She and her boyfriend had been using the pullout method for months. They thought condoms were too expensive, 9 years later they both agree condoms would have been a lot cheaper than the kid had turned out to be. Do your friend a favor and let her know that there is sperm in preejaculate and it can get her pregnant.
2007-01-14 10:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pull-out method is not reliable because sperm is present in pre-ejaculate and can cause pregnancy. Your friend has been lucky so far, but the law of averages will catch up to her at some point. She ought to make sure her BF uses a condom every time.
2007-01-14 10:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All I can think of is a nurse who use to work at the family planning clinic beside my office. She use to say "what do you call a female who uses the pull out method for contraception?" Mom. LOL
2007-01-14 10:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by calgaryjenhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is ever 100%. we used the pull out method and im 27 weeks pregnant. tell your friend to at least use a condom. if they dont like them, then try birth control. it better than getting pregnant before you are ready.
2007-01-14 10:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by ashley s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not because the precum can have sperm in it too which is most likely released prior to him pulling out. Its is only rare but it it still possible. If she is not already, she may want to go on birth control to help protect herself.
2007-01-14 10:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by juliet03angel281 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not safe, just because she hasn't gotten pregnant yet doesn't mean she won't. She has just been lucky, and luck doesn't hold out for long.
2007-01-14 10:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋