What is this? Comfort or falling out of love?

Question

I trust him and I am attracted to him. I laugh with him and I can cry with him. He makes me feel comfotable and relaxed when I am going through a tough time.

We have great chemistry

I feel like jealousy outweighs love. I Think every relationship I have been in in the past I had reason not to trust them. Therefore, I think I defined love from jealousy. Now I feel like jealousy outweighs love....

Do you think that we are just hitting the comfort stage of love or am I falling out of love?

I also have an anxiety problem and I feel like the anxiety are making these thoughts much worse

Answer 1

Take some Xanax.

Answer 2

Hello =)

As long as there is still a "spark" of passion....

Then it is still the "comfort" stage of love...something which I think is the nicest part of a relationship, really..... It is a happy thing, that doesn't require all the hard work of a fledgling relationship. Early on, when love is "all passion" it is great, but the intensity can be too much sometimes, and people burn out.

Relax and enjoy....

I have anxiety issues as well......Go see your doctor, and make sure that you are on the best medicines possible for that.......

Namaste,

--Tom

Answer 3

sounds like it is the anxiety, not so much falling out love. I'd say talk with him, communication is very important. or Take a step back for a week or so and see how you feel then.

Answer 4

If you don't feel you are in love anymore, then you are not. Only you know that. If jealousy outweights love, what are you jealous about? Jealousy is a sign of mistrust...why be with someone you do not trust?

Answer 5

This web site is what I think true love in a relationship is.

http://www.bayarea.net/~fonniepi/sharing/pete16.html

Answer 6

Sounds like IN LOVE to me,