i was abused my husband would drink and not work he was in and out of jail plus hes been in prison i caught him with some other women since he got out but i read in a paper she got hit by a car and passed away i can't forgive him hes hurt me by cheating so now that i got my own apt im going live my own live and save for a divorce am i doing right i think so and im taking ged classes it hurts for his cheating and i can't forgive him what do you think
2007-01-14 09:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by sweetgranny06 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You did exactly the right thing. There is no reason to stay with someone like this nowadays. You can contact your states legal aid assoc for free legal help and/or one of the womans help groups in your area if you want it, because its very important to divorce him quickly and get him out of your life before something major happens because of him and youre dragged into it. But yes you did the right thing and dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Good luck to your future
2007-01-14 09:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did exactly the right thing! No woman should stay with an abusive mate. I am proud that you're getting your education so you can have a better life. You wouldn't have had much of a life with a cheater and a jailbird. Now the sky is the limit. I think you should forgive him so you can move on more quickly. You don't have to like what he did; you both know he was wrong, but you'll heal faster once you're past thinking how angry and hurt you are for what he did. He's not worth any more of your time, energy or love. Take good care of yourself and good luck!
2007-01-14 09:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You definately did the right thing getting out of an abusive relationship. You can now concentrate on making your life better and hopefully making better relationship choices in future. The hurt will heal in time and you will move on. Good luck.
2007-01-14 09:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. You need to look after yourself. Glad to hear that you are starting to move on, most women are afraid to. What he did to you was unexceptable and I am glad to hear that you left an abusive relationship.
It will be tough, but you seem to be a tough woman, keep looking out for yourself and things will get better in time.
Good luck to you, you have my prayers.
2007-01-14 09:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay out of that relationship and not go back to it... You also need to get counseling and help for you to start to get past this.... You really need to move on with your life and are you divorced yet? If not you need to divorce him.
2007-01-14 09:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing exactly what you should be doing and probably should have done a long time ago. He didn't mind hurting you and his work and attitude problems he deserves everything he got and more.
2007-01-14 09:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did exactly the right thing. Good for you !!
2007-01-14 09:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl !!! you are doing the right thing !! i wish you the best & i know you can do it !! are you sure you weren*t married to my ex ? it sure sounds like you were ! lol
2007-01-14 10:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl
2007-01-14 09:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the best thing,
2007-01-14 10:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋