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1.Until what age it is considered normal to never have had a relationship (or just very few relationships) with a person of opposite sex?

You can not know if it's causing her or him great unhappiness (you have reasons to believe she/he is suffering) AND, I REPEAT: this person seems to have little or no relationships whatsoever with other people (sexual or otherwise).

2.If you would know a person who never had a relationship (or that has had an in-significant number of relationships), what would you do?
3.Would you worry about that person? If yes, why and when(at what age)? If not, why?
4.Would you do something about that person's situation? What would you do for him/her?
5.Have you ever seen something like this? What did you do about it (if you did anything, I mean)?

Please write your age, gender (male/female) and nationality (country). Answers are different due to many factors, some of them are age, gender and nationality (maybe these are the most important ones).
THANK YOU!

2007-01-14 09:33:07 · 2 answers · asked by iDontKnowWhatToDo 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I am 23, almost 24. It is about me.

2007-01-14 09:40:03 · update #1

2 answers

1. There IS no normal age to have never had a relationship... a REAL relationship. Most teenagers' relationships are just puppy love. They don't know what it takes to keep a relationship alive. They're too young to know what real love is due to their lack of experience and maturity.

2. I know people who have never had a relationship. I don't do anything about it... if you mean by trying to hook them up or something. That's just forced and rushing it. When they are talking to me and they feel lonely, I tell them that God has a plan for all of us and we just have to have faith in Him to bring us the right one in His time. We can't rush fate.

3. There is NOTHING to worry about over that person. We all can't have someone at the exact same time. God made us different and we can't just go out and find someone just because it seems like everyone else has someone.

4. All I would do is be there for them if they need someone. Misery loves company. But in all actuality, not having someone and having someone is pretty much the same thing. We still go through the joyous moments (of not going through all the pain and heartache of having someone / having someone to be there for you and hold you) and depressing moments (feeling lonely / wondering why our significant other is acting strangely or why they haven't said those 3 words in a while). There are always little things about EVERYTHING. That's life.

5. I was there for them when they needed me.

Early 20s, female, American



Everything will be FINE, okay? Start worrying when you're 30 or 40.

2007-01-14 09:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1 0

I don't know but if you're 40 and still a virgin you're in serious trouble!

2007-01-14 09:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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