does it hurt? if so, how bad and how long, and does it actually stop after a period of time? i need info
2007-01-14 09:12:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
im a few months from 16
2007-01-14 09:19:37 · update #1
Honestly, it didn't hurt me at all. But after having about a years break and doing it again, it did hurt. It hurt a couple days after that and I could really feel it when walking. The more lube you use the less it will hurt.
2007-01-14 09:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitly like the best thing. It feels so good. But I would definitly wait until you are ready and with the right person. Thats what I did and it was definitly worth it. Don't rush anything, the time will come. It didn't hurt at all for me because we took it slow. If it hurts, it shouldn't be too bad, you just may be a little uncomfortable for a while, but it shouldn't last too long. Just take a nice hot bath afterwards and the pain will go away. After your first time, you shouldn't have any pain/discomfort while having sex. Make sure you are ready, and relaxed, because if you aren't then it will cause him to have to force his penis inside of you which could cause pain. Goodluck :)
2007-01-14 09:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by kasey06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt. But mostly what hurts is if you and the person you have sex with are not in a loving, caring relationship. You will always have a love for "your first". When that person lets you down in life, it can be very upsetting. Be sure you are both ready and you realize that you may not be with this person forever. I don't know how old you are or what you have been through in life, but as a grown woman who has been married for 10 years, I realize that when we are young, we really don't understand the meaning of love and forever. If you decide to have sex, please be careful and have a grown up you can go to for any questions you may have later.
2007-01-14 09:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by megant 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your proverbial coronary heart? Or, your actual coronary heart? the respond, of direction relies upon not on which coronary heart you propose, yet which techniques you propose? bearing on the word, "he's lost his techniques" we are able to deliver mutually that in case you probably did lose your proverbial coronary heart, you could desire to easily lose your 'techniques' as in, your sanity, counting on what alternatives you chosen thereafter. With the techniques as interior the 'ego' the thought techniques that oftentimes administration us, in case you lost your proverbial coronary heart , you may extra suitable than possibly lose your techniques because it replace into because of the fact then you truly does not function as a typical human anymore. you will replace into robotic, lacking empathy, compassion and different human characteristics that impression the techniques and make you human. you may replace right into a gadget, and their minds are something thoroughly different. The question might replace into, what may be the utilising tension of your new techniques set? What might impression your judgements? in case you meant dropping your certainly, actual coronary heart... properly, then i might say specific and no to dropping your techniques, any techniques. specific, because of the fact you would be ineffective. Your physique as you knew it might not be performing on any point, and for this reason be without techniques. No, because of the fact that's reported the 'techniques' on no account dies, yet overlaps from reincarnation to reincarnation, and is the reason why we inventory some behavior and techniques via, many times being perceived as genetics, dream states or deja vu. notwithstanding that's actual your spirit or soul that's doing the reincarnating, the soul comes from the single soul that inhabits each and every thing, and so your 'techniques' that learns extra with each and every reincarnation is actual your very individualism. without it, you're actually not you.
2016-10-07 03:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first time but only DURING. It stops hurting after you're done. It might hurt a couple of times after that and you'll wonder "Why do people like this?" but don't be discouraged, it's about to get so good.
2007-01-14 09:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It didn't hurt that much for me, maybe because my boyfriend's stick wasn't too thick. You might bleed a little, but it's just because your hole is small and is getting use to the penetration. If you do decide to lose it, make sure you won't regret it. Make sure the guy isn't someone who just wants some, and won't even talk to you afterwards. But, it was so good to me!
Krazy Libra
2007-01-14 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, make sure you use protection. Get a bunch of condoms, don't let anyone talk you out of having safe sex. Go to Planned Parenthood if there is one in your area. You should be able to get condoms there for free. They also sell them in most gas stations and stores.
So far as the hurting goes, every woman is different.
2007-01-14 09:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Gwen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure about losing it normally, but when i was raped a while ago, that was when i lost it. And i can tell you, it hurt a lot.
2007-01-14 09:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by xsayxgoodbyextonightx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amazing. . . it barely hurt. i was ready, relaxed, and in love. so if you're going to do it, make sure you too are ready, relaxed, and in love. because if you're not, then it's not right. and if it's not right, your body will know and he'll have to force himself inside you and that will hurt a lot.
2007-01-14 11:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by The Fe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is not worth don't do it unless you get married. You will be very disappointed if you do it with just any guy. He will be in and out and you are not really going to enjoy it. trust me don't risk getting pregnant and or getting and STD you will regret it.
2007-01-14 09:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gina 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋