why do we never forget our first loves?

Question

why do we never find anyone else like them. do you think its a mutal feelling or is it usually only the girls that cry over there first loves.

Answer 1

Well I guess its like any first experience. The first time of anything is more vivid because its something you have never experienced before.

As for never finding anybody like your first love that may not be the case for everyone, I am sure there are people around who are equal to or better than your first love.

Re men's feelings... being a woman I can't say with surety but I think men are capable of sensitivity and can feel equally about their first loves as anyone else can.

Answer 2

I'm glad I can't find anyone else like my first love, because he's an ******. I only thank him for helping me have a more realistic outlook on love, relationships and men in general. I think men and women are both affected by their first loves. I suppose most women, us being emotional, do cry over them, but there are some men that would too. As for me, I like to take everything as life's experiences and move on.

Answer 3

Your first love leaves an impression on your life that you will never forget. I really don't know if he feels the same way. Its hard to forget someone that has had so many influences on your life. First kiss, and so many other things that you had firsts with that person. I for one will never forget my first love. I am pretty sure he will never forget me as well. As hard as you try you will never forget the good and bad times you had with your first love. You will eventually get over him. It hurts and it hurts bad. So don't let someone tell you it wont. I can't really explain why we never forget them. I hope what I said helps a little. I hope everything is ok with you. and good luck!

Answer 4

My first love was my highschool sweetheart. We were together for 3 yrs. I broke up with him. I will tell you he will never forget either because after 20 yrs. he contacted me and we talked.
He had married also.
I know that guys are capable of that kind of emotion if they let themselves.
I still talk about my firsts with him. But I was only 14 when we began. I thought he was my world.

Answer 5

The reason that no one (boys and girls) ever forgets is because of the emotional charge that it has on us. As to the second question when you find the right person then you see that they surpass the first love big time.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 6

that's rather unhappy, yet I`ve actual forgotten the 1st kiss besides simply by fact the previous flame. I`m not even particular as quickly as I have been given laid for the 1st time. I do remember even although each drug I`ve ever took, even the main obscure pill that I took as quickly as for 18 years in the past- I remember it`s call, length and shade. I`m sober now- so some thoughts are returning although...

Answer 7

it's the first time your romantic heart was awakened. it's why we're here. a chemistry to find that other connection. my first love was a light in my life that still burns decades later. for me my first love will always be eternally young, smiling and eyes shining like no other. she's in my heart until death.

Answer 8

I've not forgotten my first love, but I never think about him.

As for finding someone else like him, YUCK, I wouldn't want to as he was such a bad choice!
He hurt me but that's his loss and he's stupid for doing that!
He actually did me a huge favor!

I like to believe that eventually I'd have seen him as the man that he truly was and dumped him!

Answer 9

its a mutual feeling... its because they were the first to show us love, lost, and pain. we measure every other relationship with our first. first experiences are always the best....... no matter what it is.. love, skydiving, water rafting.

Answer 10

love or sex?
first love, can't remember
first time having sex, remember