I had a bears party and my crush and his family was supposed to come, but they didn't. I am really sad. Was he ditching me? :-(
2007-01-14 08:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Sofia. <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop being such a weak baby. He's JUST a crush, he's not even your boyfriend and he probably doesn't even know that you exist. You should get a hobby, or even better, some friends.
2007-01-14 08:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Call him and ask him why he didn't show up. Maybe he is ditching you, or maybe he couldn't make it for one reason or the other. Just don't make a mountain out of a mole hill, if you say he is just a crush, then you should learn to develop some kind of emotional independence from whatever he does.
2007-01-14 17:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Q. is somewhat vague as far as...Did you formally ask him and his parents? And...Has your crush been a short-term one, or long-time one? But, one thing for sure is, his lack of communication was impolite(short-term) to rude (long-time). Only you know for sure. But don't flip-out on him either way. Just ask him, and be sure you say you missed him not being there.
If this was going to be the first time you've invited his parents, he may have fumbled, due to nerves...who knows??
Lastly, don't be sad, these things happen and may happen again. Just remember not to give him the 3rd degree, he won't respect you. And it doesn't sound like you want to loose him for good.
2007-01-14 17:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Might have not even be able to make it. His family could have had other arrangements at the last minute. Don't be heartbroken just because he didn't turn up. Maybe next time he will.
Goodluck!.
2007-01-14 16:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by missdramatick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think so negative maybe they had other plans or maybe they had a family emergancy cause if they had nothing else going on they would of came so don't think he ditched you to sit at home watching t.v. or whatever he does, i'm sure thers a good reason why he didn't come
2007-01-14 17:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i have to say that maybe he is ditching you or may be not
why you say ? because he couldn't come because something important come up so don't worry and try to find why that happen. OK
2007-01-14 17:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by toty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to tell from just one action, how does he normally act around you? even so, not very considerate of him if he told you to expect him and he blew you off without letting u know, if he is an inconsiderate crush, trust me, he will be an even worse boyfriend.
2007-01-14 17:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by missmelissa80 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is a "bears party?"
2007-01-14 16:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about calling him and ASKING what happened before passing any judgement or attaching emotions?
2007-01-14 17:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe ur lover was busy.
Give some time.
Don't feel sad...try and talk about it and or reschedule ur meeting again.
: )
2007-01-14 17:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Phil the Yahoo! Answers Master 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋