I LOVE being single, but I dont want to let my boy go cause he's real sweet -- but there's loads of boys I'd rather be with, and would just my bf to be a real good mate who I can flirt with .... How do i do it rrrrrr?
2007-01-14 08:35:10 · 23 answers · asked by SeaSide,x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
god im only young dont tell me to grow up its not like im looking for a long term relationship!!!
2007-01-14 08:41:09 · update #1
For his sake, let him go, since you just want to use him
2007-01-14 08:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't looking for a long term mate then present your "boy" with this information and let him know exactly how you feel so he won't feel used by you or hurt. Youth has nothing to do with having a license to hurt people. You definitely can have all the fun you want without having to deal with 'karma'. Try to dawn a little on how you want to be treated. If you don't mind the guy you fall in love with to 'really want to be single' but save you for a "safety net" or 'convient booty call' then be fair and give yo boy the right to know he's being used so you two can make that decision together because your actions do involve him. As you get older your actions could have serious consequences -HERPES, AIDS, Jealousy (which leads to jail or death). Life is not all about you-it's about others and you. You either LOVE OR you HATE there is never an in-between. You either CARE about people OR you DON'T CARE about people's feelings.
2007-01-14 09:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you should do, but Ãt's nice to know someone else feels the same way I do. I've only had one boyfriend who I live with. I love having him and not having to sleep alone, but i'd like to know what it's like to be single. For me I have to stay with my boyfriend, i really do love him. On the other hand, if it's not long term anyways you should consider leaving him and doing what you want.
2007-01-14 09:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by ***HDK*** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know your boyfriend's flirting skills...you would know that.
how much time do you spend with your boyfriend? if you two are always 'single' and separated instead of being true bf gf relationship, then let him go. perhaps youre not ready for a committed relationship. you might try to spend more time with him and see how you feel. peace
2007-01-14 08:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready to be in a relationship, even thought you care about him. Tell him that you would still like to see him, occasionally. If he has a problem with that he will tell you. Then you will have to move on and tell him that the door is open.
2007-01-14 08:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being a HO... if you liked him as you say you do then you would not think of other men...
He is to good for you,. so let him go.... but when you get some kind of STD, make sure you let him know when you try to go back to him after your like a worn out rag and no other man wants you!
2007-01-14 08:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if theres loads of boys you rather be with then this boy isn't the one for you. finish with him before you hurt him more and stay single.
2007-01-14 08:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about him, let him go. It's apparent to me that you really want to be single.
2007-01-14 08:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just want to be single because the grass is always greener on the other side...or so it seems...To get over that just GROW UP!
2007-01-14 08:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you're not ready to settle down so be honest with your boy. You're going to hurt his feelings any way you look at it so just be honest with him and yourself.
2007-01-14 08:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your relationship is coming to a end if you want to be single. It should hurt you and him if you stay more in the future to stay.
2007-01-14 08:39:29 · answer #11 · answered by wish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋