I have a friend whos married and has a child but his going out with gays.he told me that he's doing that to servive?!i think it's stupid reason to explain this....
2007-01-14 08:16:11 · 10 answers · asked by ML 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
well... wether we'd accept it or not, it does exist.... i don't really understand why some people choose the easy way in earning money. when in fact there are like thousands of other ways for them to earn. if the wife and his children finds out what he is doing, then i dont think they'll like it. if it is ok with the wife, then i dont think the wife really has feelings for the guy. what a shame.
2007-01-15 23:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nino C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not stupid. If you were in his shoes, would you not do it to feed your children? Filipinos are generally family oriented. As the "Padre de Familia" or head of the family, you have to find ways to take care of your family. Life in the Philippines is difficult. We only earn like 6 US Dollars a day and some even less! That is basically 1 hour pay in the US. There are a lot of overseas Filipinos working abroad sometimes in horrid conditions. They would swallow their pride and suffer inhumane conditions just to send back money to their families in the Philippines. Take for instance the case of a Filipino worker who was kidnapped in Iraq. The Philippine government already banned workers from going to Iraq BUT the pay was too irresistable that Filipinos gamble their lives. Even during the short war in Lebanon, most Filipino workers did not leave their employers. They would rather stay in Lebanon than go back to the Philippines and suffer poverty. Desperation can drive you mad and make you do things you would not usually do. As long as he is feeding his family and using the money well, I say he is a good provider and should not be ashamed of himself. There are other people who have more decent jobs but they use their money for drugs and alcohol.
2007-01-15 17:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by CDOguide 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe the only straight in that guy is his hair.
With no doubt, your friend must be BISEXUAL, in other words, your friend is a gay guy too. And there's nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of gays who fathered a child or two here in North America. Just accept him as he is. You can't do anything else other than to be his friend.
2007-01-14 12:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dave Star 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yah! thats true! i live here in the philippines..
many guys are going out with gays..
because they need money..
usually they have sex.. eww ryt! but thats the fact..
2007-01-16 01:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mrz.Fabz21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheesh woman you were going in circles there. check your words. anyway,, yep-- its all about the money. i know a lot of people from the gay society and some of them are powerful enough to get even celebrities to sleep with them for money. (celebrities who we all thought were straight) you might be surprised some gay men can pay as much as a car or a house for a mere pleasure.
2007-01-14 09:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by anne12 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is only one word why they will do it FOR MONEY in order to what he alrady told you TO SURVIVE For some Filipinos they will do anything just to survive because it is hard to find a job, it is hard to go overseas the only way sometimes is PROSTITUTION not that they like it , tis because they have to.
2007-01-14 14:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by trykindness 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is true or not but, if it is true, than I would guess that it is a way of making money to help support his family.
Your grammer was fine. I had no problem understanding your question.
2007-01-14 08:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Gary 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your grammer is terrible. Are you asking if non gay ppl are going out with gay ppl? if thats the qyestion the answer is yes. As for the case at hand i suggest it being for money - but as you have terribly explained your point i cant really be sure of the point
2007-01-14 08:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by andybing1978 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
just for the money, if he is going to survive, just do it, if there is no job or extra income , do it
2007-01-14 11:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by lepactodeloupes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be bisexual .
2007-01-15 06:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ray H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋