Iam pretty sure that iam pregnant... how do I tell my fiance who me and him discussed that this is not the time for us to have kids.. I need some advice on how to tell him.
2007-01-14 07:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by Kerry 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well u need to tell him that God had other plans for u... Sit him down, tell him that u know it's not what u had in mind, but he needs to know that u are gonna have his baby... Do u wanna tell him that u are pregnant before u test to be for sure?
2007-01-14 07:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you need to decide whether or not you want to continue with the pregnancy. Then be up front and honest with him, he obviously was apart of getting you pregnant, so don't let him blame you solely for it. And if he is your fiance, remind him that he needs to stick with you through sickness and health and through all the tough times even though you two haven't taken your vows yet.
2007-01-14 16:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by prima ballerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably take a test and verify for certain if you are pregnant before you open a big can of worms. After that I would consider going back to school and forget about getting married.
2007-01-18 14:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Informed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You discussed that now is NOT the right time for kids, but "somehow" you ended up pregnant?
But, you're only "pretty sure".
DO NOT TELL HIM UNTIL YOU ARE SURE!!!
2007-01-14 16:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by kabmiller@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta let him know bout it.. maybe do it when he's calm and relax so that he'll understand everything,,.. and start off by saying i know that this is not the time for us .... but it's already there. (u wouldn't want an abortion would you?).. i mean it's not your fault that you got pregnant, the both of you got into it,, so don't be scared to tell him.. it just happened and you can't do anything bout it.. good luck to both of you..
2007-01-14 16:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by pinai b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test first. If you are just come out and tell him.
2007-01-14 15:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by gigischildcare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you should take a pregnancy test to be sure, then just show him the positive test.
2007-01-14 15:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by sknymnie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋