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I'm interested, how abnormal - if at all - are reccurring violent daydreams?

Not neccessarily daydreaming about random acts of violence, but about being a hero or saving people you care about from bad people, always involving physical violence, often involving weapons, and occuring several times a day.

For a 17 year old female from a reasonably affluent family.

I'm guessing daydreaming about being a hero and saving friends, family and colleges is reasonably normal, but is it usual or healthy for daydreams to involve violence (up to the death of the 'baddie', if ya like!).

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2007-01-14 07:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Pebbles 5 in Social Science Psychology

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It is not for me to say that imagining even being a hero and savings friends, family and colleagues is not normal; but I have to say I never had any such daydream; and I'm not entirely positive having that type of daydream too often is normal.

Dreams mean one thing. Daydreams mean another. The person who is spending that much awake time imagining (and that's what daydreams are essentially) this type of stuff would seem to me to, at the very least, be spending too much time thinking about violence and/or some apparent need to be a hero.

It does make me wonder if this young person uses drugs at all; because I'm under the impression some drug use can contribute to violent thoughts.

I do not have the background to say with certainty that this type of daydreaming (to the extent you described) is not normal, but if it were my daughter I would be concerned if I knew she was spending so much time imagining herself as a hero and imagining violence and killing and weapons.

Maybe it would be normal in a person who had been raised in a very violent area. Maybe not. Maybe people exposed to a lot of violence in bad neighborhoods have a different type of thinking. As someone raised in a peaceful home and peaceful suburb, what you describe strikes me as a cause for concern about the girl's emotional wellbeing.

2007-01-14 07:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0 0

Hmm, i do not recognize. My violent "daydreams" were always ones the position I (or someone I loved) grow to be being murdered or some thing and there grow to be no get away. i do not see too a lot of a project which includes your daydreams – they look more suitable healthful than mine – yet in case you would favor to quit them, right it is how i ended mine. I had to imagine back to even as they first began and what grow to be going on on the instantaneous. i realized that some thing fairly annoying had exceeded off excellent on the instantaneous, and grow to be likely a huge source for those pictures which could come many times, randomly, and uncontrolably. once i realized that this actual experience had led to this style of number of issues for me, I confronted the concern mentally, and reported, yeah, it truly is tremendous that that fairly scared me, yet why could I enable some thing that exceeded off so some time previous nevertheless impression me on a daily basis? It virtually as we communicate stopped and has exceeded off in trouble-free words a handful of circumstances when you consider that. good success!

2016-10-31 02:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i thing every person has daydreams of saving someone problay even destroying the ones that are bad idont thing it is adnormal.

2007-01-14 07:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by doakpersoncat 5 · 1 0

you want out, ok, some crazy dream I had last night, I was at a party, and then my aunt comes up to me, and tells me something bout witchcraft, then today, a few hours ago, a friend of mine called me, and told me she knew bout me, she told me my cousin told her, I was good w/ witchcraft, she asked me for a favor!!! hahahah my psychic dreams are back I guess!!!!!!

2007-01-14 07:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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